Welcome to the forums.
I can relate a little to your experience regarding chemotherapy. I had two allergic reactions to Paclitaxel and told the oncologist that I wasn’t prepared to try it again. I switched to nab-Paclitaxel and found it ok. However mine was post-surgery so was perhaps not such a high dosage as you may be having.
As Jaygo says, take a look at the Chemotherapy monthly threads to find others at a similar stage. You could also post in the Ask the Nurses section for any specific advice regarding chemo side effects.