Oh gosh @fairycake , you’ve been through the wringer & it doesn’t sound like your employers have been doing right by you or following the law. If you feel up to it, would recommend giving ACAS a call to talk through your options (03001231100). It sounds like it could be considered constructive dismissal and you would be entitled to compensation.
You should also join the Kadcyla group that @Jaygo started over in the targeted therapies section: https://forum.breastcancernow.org/t/kadcyla-2026-group/
Kadcyla is manageable for most people, there are side effects but they’re usually not as bad as traditional chemo. It drags out the whole experience though, which can feel like a LOT when you just want to put the whole cancer thing behind you. There’s a lot of information that our Kadcyla crew has shared here & you can use the search bar up top to search this thread for all the details.
Sending hugs.