This is true. I had a nurse at my first appointment when finding all of this out say do you have kids and I said no (I have step kids but I thought she meant for medical/genetic reasons) and she said well that’s good!!
Honestly sent me spiralling that something was really wrong and that I hadn’t been told everything!
I think you do get a bit numb to it but I think you are constantly building up resilience through this journey. Even if at times you don’t feel like it.
I know how incredibly brave you’ve been @sbee and I think you have grown from strength to strength over the past few months we’ve spoken. You nudge me forward so much!! Xx