Hiya. I’m so glad that you’ve had the op and well done for joining the ‘had cancer’ club.
I crashed badly last time, because I was in the system for four months, then ‘bam’ that was it, I felt spat out of the lifeboat with no life jacket and I flailed. I also struggled with people assuming I was better now. Physically I was, but inside I wasn’t.
We’re all have different experiences and different levels of resilience. Here’s hoping you don’t crash, but just know that if you do, then there is lots of help available on the BCN website. There are web sessions, I had a bit of counselling last time which helped me process stuff.
But if you’re feeling you don’t need that help, then good on you. Get on with living your best life. xx