Thanks nightowl, my husband (who is one of these I don’t give a damn what people think of me guys) has always said, dont justify yourself to anyone. You are you and if people don’t like it tough! (me and him are so different, just as well really as we would both be on the verge of breakdowns lol)
I am very sensitive, but that makes me a caring person too. We are who we are and can’t change it can we.
Thank you Debbi your a sweetie.
xxxx
Oh Jules
Your a lovely lovely person. this became obvious to me during our facebook Pm today.
I was guarded even in that as to what i said to you, but i could share with you about BC sites and the deep hurt, misunderstandings and my own personal experience. My dreadful experience was over a year ago. I have learn’t so much from it, but the wounds are still there.
We are very very vulnerable some more so than others when we first have BC and the internet is a ‘odd’ facility too us.
I would say DONT be too open and trust folk, we dont know who each other are, also folk i thought i could trust just did not understand where i was coming from and who i really am. How could they? We can expect too much of people.
We are in this fight together and I like you wish we could just care and understand each other.
BCC is fabulous though i have to say i have been on this site for years now and never a prob, mods have been wonderful. I have met such fabulous friends and will meet more soon in our Liverpool meet up.
Thinking of you hun and hope to chat on facebook
Rx
Jules,
I am sorry that you have been so hurt and upset about postings on this site. Regardless of what I feel about the thread that caused the problems I sense that the messenger was shot when delivering the message.
It would be a loss to this site if you no longer posted.
Margaret
morning jules ,sweetheart how are you today,hope you can now put the past hurtful comments behind you and start a new day knowing that all your real friends are here and right behind you .keep posting and we will do our best to support you .take care lots of hugs lynn xx
We are closing this thread following several emails from users to the moderator about this and related threads. The posts have drifted off topic, away from issues relating to either breast cancer or breast health concerns and into personal argument.
I would remind everyone that this is a discussion forum for people to discuss issues relating to breast cancer and breast health concerns. Please stick to this rule and the site will be better for everyone.
Best wishes
Jo, Facilitator