Hi
I’m 41 with 3 children (10,8 & 2). I’ve been diagnosed with Invasive Lobular cancer and have told my older children. Still waiting on tests to confirm everything and treatment plan. My sons are very anxious. I don’t know how to reassure them. My eldest son doesn’t want anyone to know at school but my younger son does. People do know now and I’m so worried the kids will say things to them.They are at the same school. I just feel so helpless and just don’t know how to deal with this. Thanks for reading x
Hi Nixons3
So sorry you find yourself here, and the worry about your children is bound to make it even more difficult for you, and you want to do the right thing for them. There is a BCC booklet - Mummy’s Lump -which you should be able to find here.
breastcancercare.org.uk/information-support/publication/mummys-lump-bcc164
I wonder if the teachers would be good allies in making sure the children were supported at school.?
I’m sorry I can’t advise from a personal perspective as not a parent, but I’m sure other mums will be able to advise as to what helped them support their children, and they will be able to support you through this difficult time. You could also ring the BCC helpline here. Hope your treatment plan is in place soon then you will know what you are dealing with. xx
Thanks for your reply Optimissy. Yes I have given them some literature provided this morning so hopefully it will help. Many thanks x