My appt is on Tuesday and up until today I’ve been holding it together but I can’t stop crying this last wee while!
I have convinced myself that it is going to be bc.
I am 28 and have a 4 year old daughter and a 5 month old son and I am scared that if the news is bad that I won’t be able to be a ‘proper’ mum to them if I have to go through treatment.
Although I am very much older than you I share your fears. My appointment is tomorrow and I have been reasonably OK until this evening. I am now full of butterflies and feeling sick. If it is BC I intend to fight it with everything I’ve got within me. Have been praying hard for strength to cope with whatever. Please let us know what happens with you. Apparently treatment is quite doable and has a good outcome in most cases. Chin up.
I would just like to say HI, and hoping and hoping both of you have good news tomorrow.
Please let us know, everyone here is so helpful and caring and be assured we will all be here for you if its not the news you want.
I am sure neither of you wil sleep much tonight, but do try.
Just wanted to say hang in there to both of you (easier said then done i know) i will be keeping everything crossed for you and hope you both have good news tomorrow and tuesday.Please let us know how you get on .We are all here for you.
All the best.
Lots of Hugs
Lindiloo x
Hope you both get good news tomorrow. Let us know how it goes.
Emma, I too have a 3 yr old (4 Dec) and an 11 month old and am 39. I was dx in July with bc and mets, but no matter what happens, you will still be a proper mum to your children. I have had 4 out of 6 chemo sessions now, and apart from my first taxotere one, things were pretty much normal, apart from probably being more tired. You will cope and you will get through it, but hopefully your results will be good and there will be no need for treatment.