i came home on monday. i cannot believe how tired im left feeling, and im feeling useless cos partners gotta do everything with the kids, then friends and childminder taking over next week, i went to feed marshall his pudding last nite but was ordered to sit down lol. i know i should make the most of it, but im so used to being independentan din and out, and i haet being fussed over, even the nurses said i was stubbern i insisted on walking to toilet dayof teh surgery in the evening, so had one yummy male nusre walking by me wheil i pushed me drip lol, joking with teh othe rpaitnet about me being stubbern lol.
the thing that annoyed me most was not being able to shower till drains weere out i hated that
How you doing babe? Sorry not been round much, been in all week myself with appendisitis. Hope your faring well considering. I know what you mean about not being able to stuff, it is quite annoying.
I tried to take my-self to the loo after my op, I walked straight past it and my legs almost buckled at the end of the corridor, ooh did I get a b******ing off the nurses!!
I go to breast clinic again on Tues with my left breast to see whats going on in there! Hopefully its nothing, but been reading a little about IBC and seem to have most of the symptoms, just no major rash, sure I’m just worrying over nothing though!
Hope you are both feeling lots better today, or if not lots, a little better. Think we all hate being fussed over too much, as feel the need to try to carry on as much as normal. But you both need to rest, so take the help you can. I do after each chemo actually, and I do feel guilty but know that I have to.
Anyway, good luck on Tuesday Heidi with your clinic, and hope all goes OK. Take care both of you.
How are you doing lovey? I hope your doing well, from your post you sound positive which is great, I’ve been thinking about you girls all the time, just wanted you to know you’re all in my thoughts all the time, and send love to all of you