cant stop touching breasts and not in a pervy way

Found a lump in left breast last fri - went to gp on monday and got appt at clinic this friday. But keep feeling breast to check lump is still there - not got much experience at knowing what other peoples breast feel like so it is hard to know what is a lump and what normal. Anyway will soon know - but am getting some strange looks at traffic lights as I sit in car checking my lump.

in the middle of a separation at mo. so all things very tough - why does it all happen at once.

Am I supposed to get pain down my arm and into my finger - it is true that you start imagining all sorts and become so aware of every little ache

Hi Jane,
So sorry to hear that in the middle of other difficulties you are having to cope with the worry of a lump.
4 years ago I found a lump which turned out to be a cyst but what made me smile was the nurse saying 'You have got lumpy breasts haven’t you? Like you having little or to be honest no experience of what a breast should or should not feel like I just smiled at her.
I found another lump last year which was another cyst however the scan then found two other areas which couldn’t be felt that were cancer.
So what I am trying to say is not all lumps that can be felt are necessarily cancerous and hope yours is one of those.
best wishes
Magsi x

P.S. hope all the traffic lights are on green for you today!!!

Hi Jane, welcome to the BCC forums.

You may find our publication helpful to read, it’s called ‘Referral to a breast clinic’, this can be read via the following link:

breastcancercare.org.uk/docs/referral_07_0.pdf

Please feel free to call our helpline on 0808 800 6000 and speak to one of our specialist nurses in confidence for support and information. The line is open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm and Sat 9am-2pm.

Best wishes
Lucy

Hi

After I had received my diagnosis (i had a small cyst which contained cancerous cells - DCIS) whilst waiting to have surgery, I thought I felt about three new lumps. I had convinced myself the cancer had multiplied and was in such a state. on the morning of the surgery, I had to have an ultrasound to place a wire into the cyst to guide the surgeons as it was very small and asked the doctor to double check all these other “lumps”. she humoured me by doing so. Needless to say, they were not cancer. The more you feel for something, the more likely you are to find it. One good test is to feel the “normal” breast to compare. If you find lumps there in the same place, you can assure yourself it is normal.

Thank you for your support - I am trying not to keep feeling my breast and keeping busy is helping

Is it better to take someone with you to the clinic?

I would as there can be alot of waiting around so having someone with you so you can have a chat. The supports always welcome. Good luck!

Sian X

All the best for Friday Jane, hope you are managing to keep busy and not worrying too much.

Magsi x

thanks for your support magsi really do appreciate it - all the good results recently on this site have given me hope

jane x

Hi Jane,
As Magsi said I too hope you are keeping busy and trying not to worry too much. ( I know easier said than done )
I would try take someone with you if you can, what ever the lump is you will prob be feeling your breasts more now anyway after this scare, I have always tried to do my pelvic floor exercises at traffic lights or in traffic jam, then, felt my breasts and now have slight prob with lymphoedema in my good arm so have been doing a few exercises when I stop!!! so now I am very busy at lights and I sure man behind me the other day was wondering what I was doing waving my arms about in traffic jam, prob thought I was mad, if only he knew !!!
Thinking about you,
Let us know how you get on
Take care
Dawn X

Hi all - everything A OK - cant find anything suspicious - just normal breast tissue - I feel such a tit.

Hope everone else gets good news - the wait plays terrible tricks on your mind even tho you know the facts - Still the worry has meant that I can now fit into that dress that was slightly too tight - and guess what I think it needs an airing tonight.

love Jane xxx

and thank you everone

Hi Jane
It seems as though everyone has had a good week.
Isnt this site brill i still cant leave it as i feel i need to know that all them ladies that helped us get through the waitng are really still doing ok.

I will continue to log on to support all the people thats waiting and to send all my lov kisses and hug to all those who have been dx.
really pleased for you and know what you me about fellin g like a Wally

Lov ya all loads
Traceyxxxxx

tracey

You are so right - I don’t know what i would have done without this site. I am very secretive by nature and I know i should feel fantastic but for some reason I don’t - obviously I feel blessed but like you I feel foe everyone on this website who are going through what I would consider hell.

At this moment I am trying on all my sexy underwear and thanking my lucky stars

Poss quite tipsey now but not overwhelmed with happiness as I expected to feel - just want everyone to be ok - I know that cant happen but that is waht I pray for and is the reaon I like you will carry on visditing this website

thanks

Jane xxx

Tracey and Jane
So pleased fior you both I also had good news today I had my tumour and 20 lymph glands removed last week and results today show that none of them where affected and there is a high chance that it will not return, so it shows that catching it early proves results,so encourage those around you to get checked out

Take care
Mary

Really pleased for you Jane and Tracey.
Its sooooo good to hear news like yours, its been good to have you as visitors on the site but glad you don’t have to join us ( I mean that in the nicest possible way)
Keep popping in wont you and reassure ladies who are where you were just a short time ago.

Love
Magsi x .
P.S. Jane … At least there will be no more distractions at traffic lights for those around you! And as I said before may all your traffic lights be green and stay green.

It’s great to hear your good news. I’m so please for you.

Sian X