Hi @oh123,
I’m so sorry your and your friend are going through this and having to make this decision. I’ve had a look through some of our previous posts for any info you might find helpful:
Do I do chemo? - Going through breast cancer treatment / Chemotherapy - Breast Cancer Now forum
Is there a choice? - Going through breast cancer treatment / Surgery - Breast Cancer Now forum
To chemo, or not to chemo - Connect to people like me / Younger women - Breast Cancer Now forum
Hopefully reading through this threads gave give your friend a bit more insight into others’ experiences.
I know you’ve said you have already heard from doctors or nurses, but if you or your friend ever need support or have any questions you can always reach out to our nurses on our free helpline 0808 800 6000.
Sending all our love,
Alice 