HI there
I had 4x FEC last year with the cold cap and it mostly worked for me. I have short fine hair, which I think is the trick, if you have thick hair the cold doesn’t penetrate to the skin and freeze the scalp. I went partially bald on top and oddly completely bald over one ear but the bit over the ear was covered by the rest of the hair and most people didn’t notice the thin top. I wore scarves wrapped round just to hide it and to keep the top of my head from getting cold.
The worst hair loss was on cycle 1, after that I lost hair constantly through each cycle, but not as fast. My hair has grown back quickly although I now have a tufty bit on top. I had a great wig which looked better than my hair but I never used it.
The cold cap is absolute hell for the first 20 mins, after this your head goes numb and it’s ok. It does make the whole chemo thing a nightmare day, taking 4 hours compared to just one. It’s not a pleasant experience and nothing can make it so, but just keep at it if it works, it is worth it. Make sure you wet your hair with water or conditioner before the cap goes on and make sure it is very tight - particularly push it down on top to make sure it touches the top of your head - this was my problem which is why I lost hair here, I think.
I went from washing my hair every day to once a week (very yuk - but necessary as the most hair loss was when I washed it). I used a natural shampoo and nothing else, not even sprays or wax. When it looked awful I wrapped it in a scarf or hat. I used dry shampoo (batiste or Boots) when it got particulary greasy although I found that it did get a sort of balance with not being washed so often.
I had it cut once during chemo, preferring to let it alone. My hair is a layered bob and I think you get better results from shorter hair rather than longer.
Give it a go, unfortunately I know of more failures than successes with the cold cap but maybe like me you will be one of the lucky ones.
Just writing this makes me feel nauseous all over again - I had to throw away all my shampoos and other toiletries after chemo as the smell just reminded me and made me feel sick again!
Good luck and hope it’s all well for the wedding, I’m getting married in November and hoping my tufty hair will have settled down by then.
I had my hair coloured three months after finishing chemo and it is mostly ok but the hairs do now break quite easily so I think there must be some sort of damage - be careful with colour.
Helen.