Hi all
I’ve been diagnosed with DCIS. I’m in my early 30’s. I’m on the waiting list for the operation. I’ve told my Mum, and some of my aunts. I don’t really know how to tell my friends, I suppose I haven’t really got my head round it yet myself.
I’m waiting for the date for my operation, which should be this month. I’m scared. I never had an operation before, and the hospital is far away, as my local hospital doesn’t do that kind of operation. How long does it usually take to recover? I’m expecting to get out on the same day, but I’ll be getting a taxi. How drowsy/tired might I be after? I’m going by myself, someone else was meant to be going with me on the day, but they let me down. I just feel so lonely.
Hello my love, I’m sorry you have found yourself needing to join us but a very warm welcome anyway , there is no rush to tell anyone unless you want to so don’t worry yourself about that, just try and concentrate on you for now and lean on your family that do know, can your mum or any other family member go with you on the day ? It’s a pretty straight forward operation and you should be feeling fine to go home to same day, I had mine at 10.30am and was on my way home by 2, you need to be a bit careful for a couple of weeks , no heavy lifting and get plenty of rest while you heal but it’s not what I would call painful and I was back to normal and driving within 10 days, please don’t feel lonely we are always here to listen and help where we can here Xx Jo
Hiya I am 33 and was diagnosed with dcis 9 weeks ago which had turned invasive but started as large scale dcis. Are you having a mastectomy or a lumpectomy? I am the most nervous panicky person ever and I found some inner strength to get through the operation, all the staff at the hospital can make you feel safe I would advise to try to get someone to go with you as you will feel very geology after the anthesetic or if you can’t get anyone speak to the hospital staff they may keep you in to make sure you recover well. Good luck you will be just fine xxx
Hi Girlie
You will be fine, they way we get looked after is really good and you will have people explaining to you what is going on.
Try not to worry about the anaesthetic, it really is a smooth ride into a good sleep and you will have a nurse with you while you come round.
I had very little pain or discomfort after WLE. I found having a little pillow at the side or under my breast to keep it supported helped.
If you can find some one to collect you and just settle you in at home that would be good. ( I think the hospital will want to know some one will be with you for 24 hours after a GA) maybe your BCN can put you in touch with a volunteer or this site might have help.
You do need to take it easy as other posters have said, and not lift or lug. Best person to get advice from is the BCN at your hospital and she will be used to all sorts of questions.
Don’t feel alone, keep posting here and you will get replies and support. This is such a caring place and always make new joiners welcome,
Let us know how you are getting on, with love
Caroluna
HI
the first few weeks after diagnosis are confusing and disorientating, hang on in there, it starts to settle in gradually. I’m not sure from your post what op you are having but would agree its best to have someone with you - you may feel wobbly after the anaesthetic or sometimes a bit sick - the hospital can give you medication for this but its quite a lot to cope with and get home on your own. I had my op (mx and recon) a couple of weeks ago and was only meant to stay in one night but felt very wobbly at first and don’t really have anyone around at home so asked to stay another night - the staff were lovely and said they would only let me home once I felt ready (two nights). After that, and being careful about doing heavy things (lifting the kettle with my left hand etc) I’ve been managing fine.
Let us know how you get on and keep coming to the forum, you are not alone! The helpline is really helpful too xx
Good luck to you too. I have a 6 month old French bulldog puppy who keeps me busy haha xx
I was recently diagnosed also…I should have surgery within the next week…lucky for me the hospital is close to my home…someone will be taking me and picking me up…my biggest worry is the recovery process…how long does it take…will I need someone to care for me…