I’m mum of two (15 & 17yrs) married with a lovely husband and 46. I was sat devestated in front of the Dr last Tuesday who told me I have stage 2 BC in the right breast with lymph gland involvement. They tell me the lump is 4.5cm and this morning I have had a marker or coil put into the middle of it so that they can monitor how it shrinks after chemo. Only then will it be removed and then I can have reconstructive surgery. Has anyone had this done. I have mostly heard of massectomy then chemo. Can tell you I am sooo petrified. Start chemo in two weeks and dont know what to expect. Im a horse riding instructor too so now my business has to go as I can’t risk getting hurt and the risk of infection around the yard. This thing has taken over everything and i’m really low. Does this feeling ever go away. x
Dear PrimroseHill
Welcome to the BCC forum where I’m sure you will find lots of support from other members.
You might also find it helps to talk things over with one of our Helpliners. They will be able to offer you emotional support as well as practical information. The number is 0808 800 6000. Opening times are 9-5 on weekdays and 10-2 on Saturdays. Calls are free and confidential.
Very best wishes
Janet
BCC Moderator
At 43 I was dx on 28 Dec 12 with IDC grade III, 2cm, 0/2 nodes, ER+, PR+, HER2-. I had WLE & SNB on 17 Jan & am currently undergoing 6 x FEC chemo. My story is slightly different to yours however I belong to the ‘Undergoing Chemotheraphy February Valentines’ thread & one of our members is having chemo to shrink her tumor before surgery (with good results I believe). You should pop into and make yourself known and I’m sure she will get in touch.
I have found the support from other girls on here invaluable, so you are in good company. Feel free to PM me anytime or pop into our thread.
Dyane
FEC 2/6 Day 14, Antrim Area Hospital