Feeling a bit bewildered lost angry and frustrated. Diagnosed 10 days ago by surgeon for local recurrence (lump in armpit). Surgeon said because of its position he wanted to shrink it with chemo first and for me to have a CT scan and oncology appt. Saw oncologist on Wednesday and he said he thought I should have surgery first then chemo! My surgeon now on holiday for 2 weeks so onc asked for 2 second opinions from surgeons at the clinic. Upshot is they want to wait for results of ct scan. However I have no date yet for CT scan and no other hospital appt. I have left 2 messages for breast care nurse today and no one has got back to me. I now seem to have no plan. Who will do surgery- my surgeon seems to think it needs shrinking how will he feel about doing something he wasnt planning doing in that way. Who will make the decision in the absence of my surgeon and so many questions. Any suggestions lovely people? I so loved having a plan, though didnt like idea of chemo felt calmer. Now all up in air and agitated again!
Hi Mooney,
I am really sorry to hear you are feeling angry and frustrated. I am sure some of our users will be along to show their support soon.
In the meantime you can always call our helpline on 0808 800 6000 who will be able to talk through questions you have on surgery and offer a friendly ear. The opening hours are below.
Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm
Late opening Wednesday 9am-7pm
Saturday, 9am-1pm
Best wishes,
Lizzy