I’m appreciating the support here, especially today! On the whole, I think I’m coping amazingly well (considering other circumstances too) but today, just went to Sainsbury’s, selected some bananas and then, for no apparent reason, started crying and just wanted to have a good cry! Well, whether anyone noticed or not I don’t have a clue and not particularly bothered but I couldn’t think why I suddenly felt so emotional except that maybe I’m stressing about the appt tomorrow with Oncologist! Stupid, I know but probably not so unusual, eh?
Still, it’s an early start for me tomorrow, so won’t have time to get too stressed. A very good friend is coming with me, I’ll be driving, and then picking my my (X)S-i-law when we get there, as she is so familiar with the hospital and the Oncology Dept already - so is saving me a lot of other stress!
As for parking, well, may have to leave S-i-l in the car, with keys! 
Be good to know what the plan is, when the planning session and when it all starts.
Wow, Grumpy, 160 miles every day! That’s a lot of petrol/diesel!!! My journey is 30 miles each way, so total 60 miles, plus another 5 miles if I pick my Sil up. So, when I get fed up of the journey, I’ll have to think of you!!! 
And yes, like you Grumpy, I’m on a pension too! Also, diesel so I’m going to take the opportunity to work out the mpg/mpl during this time - might as well get some other benefits from the travel, eh?
Cheers