Embarking on an adventure, you are welcome to tag along

Hoping all you lovely ladies are feeling good,

well had a pretty cr*p week. Job front not looking good, had heart scan on Wednesday and just waiting for the results and then yesterday went to see breast surgeon as had been having some pain and strange swelling in breast. Had an ultrasound and there is calcification behind my nipple. Radiographer explained that it was not unexpected as my cancer was DCIS (not sure if that is right !!) and I hadn’t ever been told that. So now very confused and not sure what next steps are as have to wait again.

Just wish I had had mastectomy and it would have all been over.

But hey I am still here and going to enjoy life for as long as I can.

Sorry for the rant.

K x

Sorry for the

Hi Everyone,

Karen - hope you are feeling a bit better than when you posted earlier. Do you have to have more tests done on your area of calcification? It’s a bu**er isn’t it - you think you have got through one lot of waiting for results & treatment and then you find you are doing it all again.

Heather - I know what you mean about tears not being far away. It doesn’t take much to set me off. It just shows how venerable all this bc thing leaves us. We might look like we are coping, but scratch the surface and the tears are there. I might try & get back to work this year, depending on my recovery after I have finished rads. I am still signed off from work until the middle of Dec.

Isabelle - it must be strange to be going back to work. I can’t imagine picking up the things that were in my life pre bc again.

Suze - good to get your rads started. I have now done 7 out of 20. How many will you have. I am not having the boosters like Vickie - they must just be for special people.

Vickie - have you used up that veg yet?

Tracey - you seem to be having a cr*p time. You stay under that duvet as long as you need to and get some sleep.

Sandra - are your grandchildren still with you. When do you start your rads?

Maria - I’m sure you said somewhere that your op should only an overnight stop - or have I got that wrong. Hope it has gone fine - if you need any help you can always send me your ironing! (I won’t promise to do it but at least you won’t have to worry about it!).

Gill - not heard much from you - are you coping ok?

Hi to everyone else as well, take care.

Jill

hello, ladies, from the sunny IOW. have read all the posts so I don’t get too far behind. having a lovely time, managing to do more walking than I thought I would. saw the new Queen Liz st off on her maiden voyage on Tuesday. she is very big but not very pretty. we had a bit of a mishap after setting off last Sunday. OH realized, when we were near Stoke that he had left his man bag, which he never leaves the house without. in it was his Diabetes medication. we had to ring son to post some of it to us recorded delivery and bring the rest down with him on Wed.
just a quck note to one or two people (will catch up on my return)
Maria, hope your op went OK
Suze, hope we do meet at Oldham if not before.
Karen sory to hear about the work problem
Heather, hope you are over your “weepies”
Tracey hope you are feeling better
Vickie, I tick 2 of those boxes, don’t know if I am to have boosters

have had some wonderful retail therapy today. there is a dress shop in Cowes with beautiful clothes, the sort you layer if you know what I mean. went in twice on Monday with OH and couldn’t decide as I wanted to buy everything!so didn’t buy anything. went in today with SIL as my personal stylist! and guess what, they had a sale with some of things I had seen before now reduced! I bought 7 things including a hand bag, so I was well pleased.
anyway, I am going to open a can of Guiness now, Sandra, to celebrate.

love to everyone

Carol xx

Hi Ladies,
First question for you ladies who had chemo and lost their hair. does the hair come back curly because when we are bald and as it is starting to grow we massage our heads, or are forever rubbing it! therefore not allowing the hair to stay straight!! Or have l totally lost the plot, you see my thought was……purchasing a baby hairbrush, (my spikey one will damage my brain cells!!) which l have now done, to which the pharmacist said ‘is there something you are not telling me!’ as l purchased Johnson’s baby shampoo at the same time. But no, shampoo for dogs! And brush for my delicate head! He found it funny!!! Anyway thought if l keep brushing the hair down with my new hairbrush my hair ‘just’ might grow straight! Or am l living in cuckoo land? (say nothing Suze!)

A friend said ‘you will be glad to see the end of this year’ to which l replied no it’s last year that was bad, as l was diagnosed in February, so obviously had the cancer last year! This year l have had treatment to stop it spreading, and next year is a worry because every ache and pain will be ‘has it spread’ so this year is probably my good year!! Or again have l lost the plot! (say nothing Suze!)

My dear sister in law died last week, she had been ‘suffering’ from Alzheimers for the last few years, a horrid disease, and l suppose a release from her suffering, but still very sad.

My niece (through marriage) Has just had a double mastectomy, as all the women in her family have had bc and all but one has died, the consultant said it is not ‘if’ she gets it but ‘when’ she kept putting it off, but decided enough was enough!

Has anyone else had an email from someone on here about complimentary medicine, l was not happy to receive it, all about doing the right things to stop cancer, l phoned the switchboard up and they said they were going to look into it, as she should not have been allowed to send people emails advertising.

Maria, Hope the op went ok, and you are not too uncomfortable! Sending lots of Hugs, just in case you have used all the others up!

Vickie, Sorry, no l don’t know Richard (Branson) didn’t actually say l did!! Just said l am on first name terms with him, not that he was with me!! Or that l knew him!! Sorry just a wind up!! Lol! Wish l did, love his sense of humour!

Isabelle, Lovely to have you back, so pleased you had a lovely time, and ready to go back to work!

Jill, starting my rads on Monday, another journey, but an easy one, l think! Having them for Three weeks, have already started on Letrozole, need a density bone scan, hopefully that will be arranged soon.

Carol, sounds like you are having a lovely retail therapy time!! Not touched a drink since before my last peachy! Mouth still tastes like rubbish, and it was three weeks yesterday, thought l would be feeling a bit better, think l have worn myself out with the gc!! Grandchildren still staying with me, think son and dil are coming to stay for a week or so on Sunday, not sure if that will be easier or not!!

Karen, sorry to hear about your calcifications, my friend had those, never ends does it, and of course with your work, talk about kick you when you are down!! Fingers crossed for the heart scan

Tracey, love the photo, hope you are feeling a little better after your hospital stay!

Nell, Hope you are ok? Are you out and about on your Vroommmm Vroommmm? Or is it away for the winter months, and you are snuggled in a car? Just reminded me of the days in the back seat!! Lol well those gear sticks were a pain! I remember being in Epping Forest where all the ‘lovers’ went, and a police man on a bike put his torch through the window! Dirty old man!! Not that l was doing anything l shouldn’t have been doing!! But frightened the life out of me, lived in a small place where everyone knew everyone, and thought my Mum would freak out if she found out where l was!! I use to have to tell her l was sleeping at a friends if l wanted to go to an all night party!! Whereas my brother could do what he wanted!! And stay out all night!

Jackie, Well l had another tattoo this week, so now l have three! Hope you got on ok at your appointment on Wednesday! And weren’t caught with your pants down again!! Lol! What a sight, should have run down the corridor after him, pants round your ankles!!

Kanga, Keep your hands off K’s son, or you will need an ambulance after she has finished with you!!
The last time we went to IOW a lot of Blackgang chine had gone! Washed away! They had photos of before and after and quite a lot of land had been washed away!

Heather, sorry to hear you lost one of your ‘long’ posts, l expect it is flying about in cyber space, and the cyber people are trying to work it all out!!
Must be awful for you being in so much pain, and having to use a wheelchair! And you so young!! Don’t always appreciated what we have until it has gone, although saying that, l think l have always appreciated what l had, l always remember saying to friends, l really appreciate my life and what l have! But like anything we sometimes take things for granted!
You are lucky enough to be able to write and make us laugh, so we are grateful for that!
Roll on the end of your Herceptin, and hopefully a new hip, my Mum had one done when she was about 87 or 88 l remember her saying to the surgeon, ‘not too old for one then’ he said ‘no my dear l have done them for ladies a lot older than you’ and on her 90th birthday she was dancing all night, so hopefully yours will be a success and you can dance all night!! A good bit of knees up Mother Brown!

Gill, Hope you are getting over your last peachy, must say l have struggled with a few more side effects, especially sore eyes, and pins and needles in the hands and feet! You had a long wait for your rads. Mine start Monday, and finish on the 5th November, so l might have a few fireworks myself that night!!!

Saffronseed, Suze, Elaine, Lesley Anne, hope you are all ok? Probably missed someone again! So sorry!
My little book has been untouched for weeks, so not sure who is doing what at the moment, l think Lesley is due something this week!!! A bit of peachy Lesley? Anne and Elaine, in 11days? Carol, think you are due on the 21st? Tracey 26th? Anne, 27th?
Oh put me out of my misery girls, and tell me the correct days, so l can write in my little book again!

Hope you are not nodding off Maria, reading all this rubbish?
Lots of Hugs and thoughts of you all
Sandra xxx

Hi lovely ladies. Phew what a lovely and hectic time I have had with my lovely Kiwi via Huddersfield(her) and Newcastle(him) friends I have had.
Just managed to catch up with your toings and froings.Managed not to get too dizzy scrolling up and down but hope I have got the drift.
Heather hun I always have a hankie at the ready too we never know what might set those tears rolling and sometimes it is next to nothing or nothing at all.Hope you are OK and are you sleeping any better, is that hip a bit more comfortable after the inj? I do hope so.I have had to try really hard this week not to blub when my friends were here although it would have been OK(ish) as we (her) and I go back 40yrs to when we were doing our nurse training together.The only times I got really close was when my daughter and her OH came over enroute on Weds to airport and she wanted a sarong ( I am the keeper of the sarongs)she chose a favourite of mine and she said I will think of you on the beach in Cuba when I wear this oh blub blub and then I had an appt with my Onc and she ( friend) came with me.On the way out I had to make an appt for a mammo(1yr) followed by appt with him 2 weeks later for results.I was doing this in a crowded waiting room and the receptionist was giving me the appts when I started to say to my friend about the waiting and couldn’t get the words out and the receptionist said she had the discretion to book an appt and ask for immediate results to be given at the one appt. while I waited to see Onc if she felt it was detrimental to the patient to wait.How fab is that?
Sandra are you under the duvet or at least with your feet up? Hope you had a great time with g-c but now perhaps you can rest? Cuddles from the OH sounds good but little hands around your face and neck are so lovely and the things they say? Miss my 2 like mad. Hope d-i-l is on the mend. I do not have a notebook but do I remember that your rads planning is 18th? Wow Mon then? Is Toby in his winter shelter now? No more veg to be had in my garden managed to get that sorted and plant foliage onto the compost heap.
Suze what a b****r a parking fine for parking next to a long high brick wall hope you get that sorted. How are the cracked lips? Hope they are more comfortable can’t imagine how you can talk/eat/laugh with them.My friend had really cracked thumbs around the nails etc so I went out and got her some Badger Balm and before she left 5 days later they were well on the way to being healed for the first time in years. We had to get several more tins for her to take back.Wish I could come to Oldham/Saddleworth to see you and Vicki( am OK at baking cakes) have very fond memories of the place as a child I went on the bus to Diggle to see a great aunt. Many years ago in my teens I worked as a waitress at a restaurant called the ‘Moorcock’which I think is between Denshaw/Delph and Ogden ? oh happy days
Now Vicki can I have 1st refusal at accompanying you to Tiffany in London to pick a Christmas present? I have very good taste and I have to say expensive taste too lol.Needed in Tiffany ( Just not the lolly to go with it) I could help you choose no problem you could even bring Suze too as long as she does not bring the tartan trolley and we might get our Sandra to join us ?Perhaps you are using their web site well OK but the real thing is something to behold or we could go to NY? Lol lol. Not too long now to the end of Rads you are so nearly there. I too had cross questioned the rads/Onc professionals about the process. Agree with you had 42 grays split into 15 days and then 3 further days for boosts to scar area but we all had that regardless of grade of tumour or situation of it.
Karen hun rant away all you would like. How we pick up on bits of info that we had not known before or did the radiographer slip something in there?It really is a b****r waiting for the results all over again it really must seem relentless at the moment for you.Glad you had a great time in Scarboro can’t wait to go there sometime soon.
Carol great that you got so many things at the boutique meant to be SIL had the magic wand then.So IOW is to be recommended then?Not just prisons and great to see QE sailing by.
Denise what are you up to? Hope our Nell is peeping over the top of the duvet. Poor you collapsing on the supermarket such a shocker.Are you out there on the silver dream machine this w/e?
Kris are you back in the motherland? May have misssed your posts?
Jill hope you are OK do you have an accomadating GP if you are signed off until mid Dec?I still can only get 2 weeks at a time even if my surgeon has said no driving for 3-4 weeks.
Maria still sending you (((HUGS))) if you are home hope you can put your feet up and rest and rest.
Well for someone who felt they had no energy ladies I have had such a lovely time in the last week.My friends had booked the London Eye for Thurs am and the theatre ‘Love never dies’ for the evening.Both brilliant. On Weds after my PS appt we went up to a quilt exhibition.Thurs as above but between the 2 I knew my friends wanted to see London from the river so I had booked a river cruise for her and I for the afternoon ( and arranged for him to visit Denmark St. As back to back guitar shops, then a pre-theatre dinner.Then on Fri I acted as my friends stylist she had bought loads and loads of separates and needed some jackets and accessories so off again to London 3rd time in 3 days.( Have not been much farther than the garden or OPD for months) She does not shop so we are a great pair as I was born to shop ( are listening Vicki?)Her OH stayed behind and did loads and load of jobs for me he is so good at DIY never got that much done by ex-OH in 30 odd years have now got working lights and loads of garden things sorted. I will miss them so much as I have not talked/laughed as much in ages.
Isabelle hope you are still feeling the benefits of your cruise and enjoying our massages.
To all you lovely ladies hope you are as OK as s/e allow and have a good w-end one and all.
Jackiexx

Hi ladies, no tears today yet, so far so good. Hubbys daughter and partner are staying for the weekend, she has just found out she is pregnant so went to a shopping centre. Went looking at prams etc, had to buy some new born clothes, couldn’t stop myself.
Karen, sorry about your to hear they have found something else. I had calcification in my breast for 10 years, so it may be just something left behind from the cancer. Fingers crossed for you, are they going to do anything about them ? I know what you mean about wishing you had MX, I was shocked when the doctor told me I had to have MX but although I dont like being breastless at least I know it’s gone, well hopefully it has. Its soon be the end of this year, shall we all give it a big kick out the door.
Carol, sounds like you having a great time in IOW, glad you enjoyed your shopping trip. That was so good that you couldn’t make your mind up what to buy, I hate that when you buy something then go in the shop the next day and the item has have been reduced.
Jill, I would wait and go back to work next year Jill, we can kick this year out for good.Breast cancer does leave you feeling very vunarable, I think it is the fear that it is going to come back again.
Sandra, great to see you back posting hope the grandsons are being good, I am sure they are. I never did anything to my hair just washed it and let it grow, it is curly though. Dont mind it being curly though I just wash and go, dont have to style it just let it dry on its own. Wow Sandra you are having a bit of bad news with family members at the minute, very sad news so sorry about your sister in law. I use to work with the elderly with alzheimers, lovely people but so very sad for their family when there wife husband mum dad etc doesn’t know them. What an awful decision for your neice, dont bear thinking about does it. ‘I could have danced all night’ thinking about dancing made me think of a song , was it from The King and I ? Your mum does wonderfully well Sandra, she must be an insperation.
Well better go and see whats for tea, hope all you ladies are having a good weekend.
Take Care,
Love Heather,
xxxxxxxxx

Hi Jackie, posts crossed, wow what a great time you have had, sounds fantastic and well deserved. Good news about your appointment and not having to wait, and great you got all your DIY jobs done. I am Sleeping a bit better I suppose, I do manage to sleep sometimes till roughly 3am which is a bit better. Hip is better than it was, still plays up if I am on it a lot, but not has bad at night. Can I come to Tiffanys please, I will be good and I wont come on my scooter promise lol
Really pleased you had a nice time with your friend, bet your shattered now though. You can have a rest all weekend now.
Take Care,
Love Heather,
xxxxxxx

Yep Heather our posts did cross so what do you say Vicki are we on for going to Tiffany’s or shall Heather and I choose something and let your OH know/pay???Suze you know Vicki and you could also advise.
Given my tastes we might be into 4-5 figures lol We might need Heather’s scooter to carry away all our shopping( and Heather likes pearls too) just don’t get me down Oxford or Regent st for a while I now know all the security guards as my friend is used to being able to take clothes outside to check the colours in daylight in NZ, does not go down well in London oh I laughed so much.
I had the most brill time with my friend having not really ventured further than the garden or an appt althouh my rads were 1 hr away and I drove myself, I was starting to feel a lack of confidence at coping with travelling out and about/ well doing anything really. Have had 3 days travelling to and around London and done it.(I would not have done this in pre BC times due to work pressures) How pathetic is that as in the past I have driven all over the country on my own.I have lovely friends here too but they all work so meet up with them more locally.
It was really helpful as I had told my friend this and she was great and had I needed to return that would have been fine. So it was helpful to have the opportunity to do that. Do I sound like a real wimp? But I was worrying about that.Oh boy have I fallen asleep quickly and stayed asleep .First time again since dx. I have not talked or laughed so much in ages.Anyone need a personal shopper?No need to apply Carol.Love and hugs to all Jackie

Hello Ladies,
I hope everyone is having a good weekend. I’m babysitting my boys tonight.
On Thursday I went to a day organized by my bcn and some of the other nurses at the hospital, it was a very nice day at a local hotel in Carlisle, it was a Health and Well Being day for ladies who have had or are having treatment for bc. There were people from the hospital giving massages and free time in the hotel swimming pool and jaccuzzi. There was also makeup demonstrations and colour therapy, as well as a clinical pscycologist from the hospital. We also had a nice lunch and afternoon refreshments. It was a loverly day.
I am going to go back to work on Monday and will just do 3 half days a week to start with, I can’t wait to see my friends and clients and have never looked foreward to going to work so much before! Even though I do love my job.
I am at work just for the morning on Monday and then I have to go to the hospital for a checkup with my oncologist in the afternoon, the one I don’t rate very highly! Will have to see how I get on.
I’ve now lost a stone in weight since I finished my rads, is anyone else losing weight lately? I’ve lost one and a half stone since dx my doctor thinks it could be related to the tablets I’m taking, but I’m not complaining just now as I could do with losing a bit more yet!
Karen, I hope all goes well with your results, thinking of you, take care xxx
Maria, I hope all has gone well for you this week, big hugs xxx
Sandra, nice to hear from you, I haven’t been very good at catching up with all of the news since comming back from hols as my sil has just moved into a new cottage this week and I’ve been helping with the children and other jobs to help him get sorted out.

Take care everyone,

Love and Best Wishes to all,

Isabelle xxx

Hi Girls,
I hope you are having a good weekend.
My posh op went well apparently, but I had some post op complications and had to stay an extra day. And I suppose this has slowed down my recovery. Everyone (including me) seemed to think it would be a walk in the park, but it feels more like a trek up a mountain to me, and I am not a whimp. Well, it can only get better. Thank you everyone for your positive vibes sent during my posh op, just think what would had happened if you had not sent them.I see the surgeon in a month for the results, yes, more results to wait for. Anyway I am still coming to UK on Wednesday, and I won’t have to carry my suitcase as I will have 2 strong boys with me.

Isabelle, good luck with your return to work, goodness what pills are you taking to loose wieght ?
Jackie, your Kiwi visit sounds just like what the doctor ordered, hope you are not missing them too much now. I have a friend who reminded me we met in Oct 1972, when we started our nursing training, it feels like yesterday (almost)
Heather, just because your hip is not so bad now it does not mean you are eighteen again, so maybe you ought to slow down a bit. I’m glad you are getting more sleep though.
Sandra, having been there before, I can tell you that hair often grows back curly, mine was for about 9 months, but it did not last. I suppose it is intoxicated hair. Mine is like baby hair at the moment, all sorts of lengths, all sorts of colours and all over the place, but very very thin, and I still look bald. Sorry to hear about your sil, and glad to hear your niece has taken the terrible decision, I hope her recovery is a smooth ride.
Carol, glad you are having fun in IOW
Karen, rant all you like , I do !!
Tracey, I hope the tax truck leaves you soon. It’s so unfair when we have to put up with complications of treatment. Treatment is bad enough as it is.
Jill, what line of work are you in ? Don’t go back to early.
Suze, Anne, Vickie, Lesley, Gill, Kris, Saffronseed, Denise,Elaine, Kirsty, Wendy and Linda, hope all is a good as it can be with you.

Hugs to everyone, Maria

Marial just popped in to look at the post. Well done posh op sorted, pity about the complication tho’So you will be packing again make sure you do not touch a suitcase other than to put sonmething in it and get the strong boys to do that too for you.More waiting hope your visit helps take your mind off it a bit. Yes 1970 does seem like yesterday when I first met my Kiwi friend how time flies. Take care and keep resting. Hugs coming your way( well gentle ones)Jackie

Hello everyone,
3 weeks since my last chemo and I haven’t got to go again tomorrow!! Hooray :slight_smile: hubby said maybe we should go and sit there for 10 hours to remind ourselves what the last one was like!
Side effects are going but very , very slowly. Am still absolutely shattered and struggling to walk anywhere, still got tingling fingers and toes and still not got my taste back properly. My eyes have been watering for the past week, presume it is lack of eyebrows?? However it’s good to be on the up, amazing how a good day now would have been rated as a bad one 6 months ago!!
Haven’t got my rads planning appt till the end of the month so am enjoying a welcome break away from hopitals :slight_smile:
My son is being wonderful, on Friday I was feeling awful and he hoovered, washed up and cleaned the bathroom. My youngest daughter has now gone to Germany to do her year abroad which is part of her uni course. Original plan was to go with her and settle her in but wasn’t up to it so will be visiting her when I feel more up to travelling, hopefully early next year.

Maria, glad you are home again and sorry to hear that your op was tougher than you expected. A holiday will do you the world of good. Hope you feel better soon and have a good time in England.x

Isabelle, I’ve lost weight with the chemo. Usually I lose weight in the first week after chemo and then put it on again. With my 3rd tax I lost a stone and have only put 5pounds of it back on again. I think it’s because I’ve been feeling so awful and food has been tasting really bad this time round. Unfortunately it doesn’t really show, probably because I haven’t been able to do much. Good luck with going back to work, 3 half days sounds like a nice ,gentle intoduction to work. x

Jackie, you sond similar to me. I’ve found that since BC I haven’t gone out much except to hospital, my confidence seems to have gone. I don’t think it’s totally because of the wig but I just find it difficult going out sometimes. Probably not used to it at the mo! Glad you had fun with your friend. x

Heather, bet you had a great time buying newborn clothes. They’e so cute!! Glad to hear that you are sleeping a bit better. x

Sandra, good luck with your rads tomorrow. Hopefully not so bad as the peachy mother. I’ve got tamoxifen but am not meant to be starting it till I start my rads, prob November. You’ll be finished rads before I even start mine!! The side effects for the tax have definitely got worse each time, I’ve also got sore eyes and tingly fingers and toes this time. Just waiting for them all to improve and feeling so glad that the chemo is over now!! x

Carol, hope you are haveIng a wonderful time. Retail therapy sounds good, I could do with some of that. Enjoy the rest of your hol. x

Jill, when do you finish rads? Was just wondering how long a gap you will have before you go back to work. I’ve got to go back to my gp soon as my certificate runs out early November. Will prob be having my rads through Nov/Dec so presume I will be signed off till next year. Seem like I have been off sick forever! Am looking forward to getting back to normal though not sure that normal will be the same as it used to be - if that makes sense!! Hope you are havin a good weekend. x

K Sorry to hear that you have to wait again for another problem. Hope you don’t have to wait to long for some answers. HOpe you are enjoying your weekend. x

Have got to go now, dinner to cook. Hope everyone else is doing well and having a relaxing weekend. Must get organised one day and write all your name down so I can look efficient and say a proper Hi to you all!!
Bye for now,
Gill xx

Hi Ladies,

Just a quick post…

Maria pleased to see that you’re home and recovering. I hope you have a lovely stay over here when you come over and hope the weather is kind for you too! Winter is on it’s way, it’s getting colder and darker and I’m sure I’ve got SAD! - and our Vroommm, Vroommm is going away for the winter :frowning:

Heather, Karen, Sandra, Gill ((Extra Hugs)) for you all too, going through a rough time and dealing with bc! Lifes a b!tch sometimes isn’t it! Thinking of you all too x

Jackie nice to have old friends isn’t it? I still have two school friends - one from when I was 4 and the other frm high school - gosh only just realised that’s 46 years for my oldest friend OMG!!!

Gill one of the onc nurses said the watery eyes could be due to the chemo ‘escaping’ or something like that as I mentioned it last week when I went (not there 10 hrs though, only 3). When we were out on the bike last week it looked like I had been crying when I took my helmet off as my face was that wet!

Hope all you other ladies are ok, sorry not done personal ones for each and all, but I do care and think about everybody dealing with this bl**dy bc and all the cr@p it throws at you.

Got my first TAX on Tuesday, dreading it; OH coming with me and I’m not normally a wimp, but just felt worse after each pm so far, got four to go and put on loads of weight so far (unlike our Isabelle!), but at least I’m half way through now :slight_smile:

Love to all

Nell x

just to set the record straight, my husband is not on board with the tiffany christmas present, however, it is early days, there are still 69 sleeps left til christmas and i can be very persuasive . Will keep you posted!

Am knackered, husband has been away to watch man city play blackpool , game was 4 pm today so obviously he had to set off at half nine yesterday morning with his mates to make sure he was there on time…he has just phoned me, is still in blackpool with ten zillion other city fans waiting for the next train home. Nobody thought to check/book the return journey it seems!

anyway, just a qucik hello today, glad u are home Maria,

Vickie
xxx

Hello Ladies,
Sandra, I hope all goes well for your rads tommorrow. It’s great to hear that you’ve reached this stage at last. I’ll be thinking of you. It will be easy after all the s–t you had thrown at you during chemo, lots of love and big hugs xxx
Nell, I hope all goes well with your Tax this week and that it is’nt as bad as you are expecting, lots of hugs and best wishes xxx
Maria, I hope that you are taking things as easy as possible, and have a better week this week comming xxx
Gill, your son sounds like a good one, how do you manage to get him to help out so much, he sounds a real darling. I hope you get a bit more of your energy returning very soon, Take carexxx
I hope everyone has had a good weekend,
Thinking of you all,

Isabelle xxx

Hi Girls , Love and wishes from Bournemouth !
Still here , and the weather for once is being kind . Read through all the posts to try and keep up , took me absolutely ages , and I think my lot have given up on me . GC just gone to bed . I won’t be able to come over again until February as Ryanair have pulled out until then .
I will just miss you Maria , I return on Tuesday . Hope you are feeling more up to it by wednesday , don’t you just wish the tunnel was a little shorter and the end looked a little nearer ?!
Sandra , good to have you back , we missed our "wise old owl ". Good luck tomorrow , the start of yet another journey .
Sorry , I’m not able to mention you all . I have to go as Jo ,my dil wants to order something on-line , so I’ll say goodbye , may well not be able to get back until I’m home .
Don’t like all that talk about "calcifications " cos I know that seemed to figure in my history , now I want to get back to look it up !
All the best to all of you .
The one good thing that has come out of all this is that I feel that I’ve a whole new bunch of very important friends through BC , and thats a definate positive !!
love to you all ,
"Kanga "

Hello Everyone,

Maria - glad you are home and that another part of your journey is now over. Take it easy on your travels - make sure someone else does all the lifting & carrying for you. Hope you enjoy your stay. Are you fetching your ironing over for one of us to do?

Isabelle - good luck with your return to work tomorrow. I work for one of our local councils but I am only part-time anyway. I used to work 5 mornings a week, the plan would be to start back just doing a couple of mornings & build it up from there.

Sandra - have you enough hair to need a hairbrush? - I haven’t. Mine was dead straight before chemo so I want mine to come back curly. At the moment all I have is thick fluff, soft & suspiciously grey looking, but at least it’s hair. Hope things pick up for the rest of your family you seem to be getting more than your fair share of troubles at the mo. Hope your first rads goes better than my first session - I had to wait an hour.

Jackie - have you recovered from all your shopping or do you need more retail therapy to get over it! My GP has been great through all this bc cr*p. She signs me of work for 12 weeks at a time. My work do know that I am undergoing treatment for bc, my GP did say that if I didn’t want them to know why I was off sick she would have to sign me off for a shorter length each time.

Gill - good to hear from you again. Not having to go back for chemo is a wonderful feeling. I had watering eyes during my chemo. It used to run down my face and drip off my jaw! People must have though I was crying all the time! It did get better eventually. My rads finish on 4th Nov just before Sandra’s do. My GP has said that I will not be able to go back to work straightaway but I am signed off until the middle of Dec.so I will see how I feel then.

Denise - good luck for you next Tax on Tues - get the duvet ready!

Heather - how is that hip? A new baby in the family will be lovely. How many new baby clothes did you buy?

Kanga - you certainly seem to be having a busy time, kangarooing all over - it must be time you had a rest.

All is peaceful here at home. The children are on their October break from school for the week. We sent them down on the train to stay with their grandparents yesterday (OH’s parents). I only get 4 rads treatments this week - the machine is getting a service on Thurs so I get a day off - yay!!

Take care everyone,

Jill

love david tennant, nobody told me that he was in a new series, think its a conspiracy of silence as is about single dad bringing up his four children after his wife dies. Can see why they didnt tell me!

Vicki not another word,do not tell me what happened, recorded this as watched Downton will save it to watch doing the ironing lol.Good luck with boost rads.Jackie

I will refrain from commenting then! My breast has become quite sore and hot today, like that stretched burny feeling when your shoulders have been in the sun too long. And tissue inside feels like it’s throbbing too. Also, most freaky, the nipple is swollen , wrinkly and hard. Yuk yuk yuk. There is no glamour in this bc! So not looking forwards to rads tmrw really. But that’s enough about my nipples, time to sleep!