For Elaine 55
For Elaine 55 Hi Elaine
I saw your post on Hydrasuns ‘dating’ topic.
How awful that you have to go through a marriage break up on top of everything else. I was not married myself but had been with Paul for 2 years and had discussed children, marriage, etc. I was astounded when he could not bring himself to attend my appointments. He told me he could not go in case they had worse news to tell us as he would not be able to deal with it!!! I know it sounds harsh to say but I now know that I am better off without him. I also found that as soon as I had done the deed and broken up with him I could start to fully concentrate on myself and getting me better rather than be worrying about the relationship, how he was feeling etc.
I hope you are coping okay - hopefully you have lots of other people around to support you - I moved straight back in with my parents and both my sisters came home too so we are all supporting one another through my treatment.
I think I have seen from a couple of your other posts that you have already had surgery & will be starting rads soon - where are you being treated? I’m still on chemo at the moment in Sheffield. Rads to look forward to in the new year!
Take care,
Sarah x
for sarah Thanks for your kind message, Its a lot am going through at the moment, but I know i have got to get well so am putting myself first. Have lots of support from family and friends and also this site The only difficult times are late at night (i live alone)when the mind takes over. Going to the chat rooms really helps
I start rads on 13/12…25days…5days a week, I have to travel to the centre of leicester, will be a nightmare coming up to christmas the parking is horrendous. Well journey to recovery eh,
Have been to sheffield shopping centre on many occasions, love it, al though this year the last thing i am interested in is shopping!!!
Once again thanks for your mssage
Love Elaine