Sorry girls for being very slack and not logging for a long time.
I am not an expert on this site and have just searched how to retrieve my posts and cannot so have started a new thread. Please fell fee to repost anywhere where you think this maybe useful.
Thought about this forum (and everyone on it tonight - paricularly Lemongrove for her sterling work) after I heard a sad story of a male friends, friends sister who is keeping the news of her cancer hidden. I asked whether it was because of losing a breast (my knee jerk reaction was to hide the news because of feeling unsexy - but had a successful lumpectomy and still a successful sex life) but he did not have more information. Told him to pass my number on for her to talk and also recommended this site, mentioning Lemongrove in particular and the great support it gives.
I have secondaries in bones, lung, liver and brain, diagnosed in Jan 2011 and still up and about. Gamma knife (as Lemongrove said now given on the basis of the volume of the mestases and not number) has done well in knocking off 30 tumours in my brain with no side effects from what I have experienced. There is just one they are keeping an eye that might have survived the original blast and maybe growing (15% can make a comeback apparently) but all the rest have been blasted once and either remained stable or shrunk. So it gets the thumbs up from me.
Lungs and bones are stable. Liver is being kept under control. Firstly by Herceptin after original EC/Taxol chemo - but I developed a tolerance after about 8 months. They transferred me back to chemo (Lapatinab and Xeloda) as soon as they spotted this and things have been under control ever since. So coming up to two years and still relatively fine - the only thing I really notice is tiredness that is increasing with the chemo (affects are cummulative) and joint aches and pain - especially with the onset of dampness in winter. But after the painkillers have kicked in I am leading a pretty normal life except for having to have more days rest between nights out but then lots of friends have said - that is just getting old and they feel the same!
So considering I seem to have a measles form of cancer and am riddled with tumours I seem to be doind quite well.
Glad that you are still posting away Lemongrove - don’t know what we would do without you.
With lots of love and best wishes for a Happy Xmas to all
Jane 2013 x