Hope

Hello
I’ve never done anything like this before having never been through anything like this before
So here goes !!!

  1. Play music happy , sad whatever you’re feeling oh and make sure it’s loud !
  2. Walk , eat and drink wine , do t be afraid go with the waves they may rise but they do fall too
  3. Laugh, laugh ,laugh ? even if you think it’s not appropriate ! It’s appropriate for you
  4. See your girlfriends , stick together, keep in touch everyday txt , call , see them it’s a must
  5. Rest get yourself a kindle , get tucked up in bed with your cat or dog or both and watch crap !! Get lost in it
  6. Always ask any questions my breast nurse was like a life line make sure you use them
  7. Take the offers of help when you need it don’t feel guilty , people want to help you , let them
  8. Talk about your feelings when you want to and you are ready
  9. Hug
  10. Be brave . I never once asked the question , Why me ? Why not me ?
    I never once thought or used the word battle !
    But this is just me only my thoughts and feelings
    Love to anyone who reads this xx

Hi Lurtj, 

Thank you for sharing some of the things you do to feel better- very inspiring :) 

I am sure more users will be along soon to share their thoughts to.

Best wishes, 

Lizzy 

Sounds like good advice L!

Love and prayers to you also.

MarleneRose