Hi All,
i’ve only just started using the forums, which i am kicking myself for as it’s a valuable support network i could have done with. I was DX this time last year, several sites of DCIS and due for MX and immediate recon using a tissue expander. as i was having recon i was under plastic surgeon, and ended up having mx on a plastics ward quite far from where i live. i think this was root of the problem.
unfortunately the nurse looking after me after MX failed to respond to me being in agony, bp dropping and temp rising. i had a huge hematoma and went through the whole night terrified, in excruciating pain and unable to even get off the bed, i was in a single room and very scared.
the nurse did not look at my operation site atall, nor check my drains, even when i held one up and asked if this was right ? (they were both so full). when my surgeon came in at 8.30am he immediately asked if i had padding under my gown. i was by this point totally delirious, and was rushed to theatre, had a seizure on the trolley, and 8 hr op.
my recovery was very hard, i was very ill indeed. i am planning on taking this thro a complaints procedure (having already got my notes thro data protection act). when i was told 3 weeks later they found invasive tumor aswell and i had to go back in for lymph node removal i nearly collapsed. luckily i was on a breast care ward, and only then did i realise just how awful the first experience had been. the breast care ward was an entirely different experience, thankfully.
i’m very sad, every time i meet someone or read something where people are talking about their ‘wonderful care’. if i had only known what i know now i would have demanded to see a Dr. i still don’t know why i didn’t.
i still haven’t been able to write the letter of complaint, despite having the notes for about 2 months now. apparently legally i do not have a case.
please, please, if you feel you are not receiving the right care, or are struggling with what is going on, demand to see someone senior. i wish i had. also wish i had used this site earlier and gained some information before the op, that way i might have been more sure that something wasn’t right.
Erika xx