How do I prepare my five year old boy ?

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Dear all,
my beautiful mum passed away on Friday. Having said she wanted us with her, she waited until we had all gone out and the Marie curie nurse was looking after her. I was ten minutes away and sped back but it was too late. My little boy had recited a note to his nanna so see both sat with her and I read it out to her from my son.

even though we knew this was coming, the shock has hit me as much as if I hadn’t been prepared at all. My mum meant the world to me and I’m devastated.

thanks to all of you for helping me through my mums final days. She was a remarkably brave and beautiful woman mals x

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Dear Mals
I’m so sorry to hear that your beautiful mum has passed away and just wanted to say my thoughts are with you and your family.
Hugs
Ruby xx

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Mals - what a peaceful end and now she is free. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and particurly with your little boy. (()) xP

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Im so very sorry for your loss, this happened to me 2 years ago, my beautiful mum passed away from cancer 4 days after being diagnosed, you are never prepared no matter how much time ur given as I believe ur mum is everything, that’s y I’m doing everything I can to fight my own BC for my son more than anything else, im glad ur mum is free from pain and I send lots of love and my thoughts are with you and your little boy, and remember all of the lovely memories you have, mine keep me going, big hugs x x

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Dear Mals

May I pass on sincere condolences from all of us here at BCC to you and your family

Take care

Lucy

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So sorry to read this Mals, my sincere condolences to you and your family at this time. I am sure that your Mum was greatly comforted in her final days knowing you were all surrounding her with love, and that you little boy was able to see her and share special moments with her. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

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Thanks everyone,
my sisters biopsy turned out to be fine. I’m sure mum was hanging on for the results. As for me I’m trying to spend some quiet time for reflection. Finding it hard to face anyone at the moment but tomorrow I’m keeping a very important appointment in memory of my brave mum- my annual mammogram. It will be difficult but nothing compared to what she faced in her last few weeks. I’m so proud to have had the mum I had and still have in my heart.

love to you all and thanks again.
mals xxx

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Hi…condolances and massive hugs to you and your boy…apple

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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. You and your sister have been through the mills. Sometimes I do question God’s timing. But ultimately I know and trust that He knows what He is doing. I am praying for you that God will draw you close and comfort you. Our family went through a rough patch when my youngest brother was murderdered just as my mum got bc for the second time. God has been faithful and our faith has been strengthened in spite of unexpected wobbles. X

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Iam so sorry for your very sad loss Mals. My thoughts are with you and your family

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Hi Mals, I am so sorry to hear the news of your Mum and my heart goes out to you and your family Please take care of yourself xx

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Dear mals,
Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. xx

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Thank you all for your lovely messages. The funeral was on Thursday. It’s only just sinking in now what a gaping hole there is in my life. Your messages have been a great comfort.
Mals x

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Dear Mals. May your Mum now be at peace in the arms of the angels. She will always be looking down on you and your son. Take heart that she is never far away. God bless. Emma xx