In memory of my mummy Janet Webster

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Hi everyone,
I haven’t been on this site for many months and whilst my mum battled through cancer this was my life line, its an amazing support group with some amazing people, all with one thing in common, cancer.
Today is the anniversary of my mums death and they say time is a healer but I’m not finding that in fact for me each day seems to be getting harder and more lonely, I can’t see how life can ever really be the same again, there is so much I miss and I can not seem to replace those losses.
But through my saddness I have so much respect and love for my mother that I refuse to let cancer destroy me emotionaly so just for her I will battle with my demons and get though this heartache as I know she would only want the best for me, but that can’t stop me from missing and loving her more everyday. LOVE YOU MY ANGEL xxxx

To all you ladies out there who are fighting breast cancer, stay strong and never give up, fight all the way and try to stay positive, mummy had breat cancer for 17 years (in and out of remission), it become terminal in the 13th year when it spread to her lungs and head, they gave her 6 months to live once it reached the brain, she out lived the medics by 4 years, such an amazing strong lady, if ever I can help any of you ladies please just ask xxx

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Hi mumsangel,

Sorry to learn that things are still very raw for you and you are finding things difficult. Please do phone the helpline, they offer a good listening ear and will support you through this. Calls to the helpline are free, 0808 800 6000 lines open weekdays 9 - 5 and Saturdays 9 - 2.

Take care,
Jo, Facilitator

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Just wanted to send you a cyber hug and kiss X

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I am sure your mum was very proud of you.
Time is a great healer but it takes a very long time to learn to live without a loved one.
Love Debsxxx

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Hi Mumsangel

As a daughter and as a mother I feel much sympathy for you. I know how devastated I would be for my mum to have cancer and to loose her to it and I am devastated too that my own daughters have a mummy with cancer and the risk of one day loosing me to it.

I think most mums and daughters enjoy a special bond and I bet you and yours made an extra special effort to enjoy your time together; along side any sad times you remember I hope and I’m sure you have many more happy ones to call upon.

To me, grieving is a healing process which as Debs says takes time and though you will probably always miss your mum I’m sure the pain be easier as time goes on.

Hugs to you
XXX