Is it too late to change my mind??

I had mx and anc in jan and feb, this year, with an expander recon, done at the same time. It has been fully inflated now for over a month. It is very hard, and painful, just feels like i have a large melon strapped to my chest. It feels like i have a bra on thats 2 sizes too small, all the time. The pain and discumfort just never goes away. I dont go through a minute each day when i cant feel it. The pain seems to have gone into my shoulder now aswell, it burns all the time.
I am 9 days post 2nd fec, and its seems to have got worse since i started chemo, dont know whether it because my body is a little weaker due to chemo and i’m feeling it more, or that there is something sadly wrong with it.
I told my cons, at my last appt, about this, he doesnt seem too concerned, but then again it isnt him in agony 24-7. He doesnt seem to like it when things dont go to plan, and i feel abit like i’m being a nuisance, by complaining all the time. I am seeing him tomorrow, and i just feel like saying to him, i dont want this anymore, take it out, and can we re-think what we are going to do.
I have had a rotten time all the way through. What with infections, and swelling, and then being neutropenic, and having to go into hospital twice for iv antibiotics.
I just feel like i’m at the end of my tether and dont know what to do?

Sharon

Sharon

I don’t think it’s too late to change your mind. Take some advice from him and also speak to a BCN. This could be normal and needs more time to heal or there could be an issue which needs sorting out now rather than after for the full recon.

all the best Wizz