Hi Jan, Moira
Jan, glad the pm arrived OK - I think that ‘stepup-speakout’ is an excellent site - glad you found it useful. Would getting a print-out from the site and showing it your bcn help at all? Is your GP any use? I feel really sorry for you - you seem to be just banging your head against a brick wall.
As far as your painful arm goes, can I suggest taking some measurements of both arms - circumferences, at various points up them, and then repeating this exercise a week later at about the same time of day? This might give you an early warning of any swelling. Also, are you sleeping on your bad arm? That might be making it ache, too.
Why do we get so much conflicting information? Lots of reasons, I think. ‘End of conveyor belt weasel words’, a lot of it.
As far as conflicting information specifically about lymphoedema goes, whilst many surgeons, oncologists, GP and even bcns are good in their various areas of expertise, very few have more than superficial, and often out-of-date knowledge of it. The lymphatic system isn’t well taught at medical school (partly because it isn’t fully understood, it has to be said), with a tendency to trivialise the physical, emotional and psychosocial havoc that untreated/undiagnosed lymphoedema can cause.
As a direct consequence of this lack of awareness, there are not nearly enough properly trained lymphoedema nurses and physios, not enough staff for lymphoedema clinics, not enough custom made garments for problem lymphoedema (altho’ it’s always a problem to the person who has it!), not frequent enough appointment for those who need them, not enough timely referrals (to head off problems before they start).
It’s a scandalous situation. If you use reputable lymphoedema websites (will bump a thread about this in a mo’) to increase your understanding of lymphoedema, your knowledge of it will rapidly overtake that of nearly everyone involved in your cancer care, sadly.
Girls, I know I’m ranting, so I’ll stop.
Will give that thread (called ‘Want more info’) a bump now.
Take care
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