hi all, i’m sure i’m not alone in this boat but whilst i can keep fairly positive whilst waiting for my treatment to start, little things reduce me to tears. My daughter lost her part time waitress job today and i just feel disproportionately sad for her, it’s not the sort of thing that would usually make me cry but i’vr been in floods! life seems so unfair,
off to get a grip,
hugs to all
Herbi
Hiya Herbi
Oh love, I really feel for you, cos I’ve been there too - and it just takes you so much by surprise cos it’s unexpected isnt it!
It’s waiting for yr turn to come for treatment that’s causing it Herbi, n I’m stamping my feet on your behalf cos it’s all just so unfair isnt it!
Have a big gentle ((((hug))))) from me!
With much love to you, and hope you manage to sleep fairly ok!
Shelley xxx
You poor thing. You are all so much on a knife edge especially after diagnosis. That is what we are here for. To understand fully how you feel. We are just the same and it can be hell. Luckily I find I only get the odd off day but I sure do know when it is there…everybody should avoid me at all costs because reason goes out of the window.
Waiting, the unknown and lack of control are the worst aspects of treatment and these forums and the Helpline plus publications help so much. Get on a treatment in November posting. You will meet others going through the same thing at the same time . The August group I am on is super. You could try starting one. Later on when dry humour returns you could try the dark dark wood. It is not for the sane. But under the back humour are many salient facts and deep feelings.
Like Shelley U send you a big Hug
Cackles xxx