July 2017

Hi ladies! Carole, how lovely to meet up with the other ladies. Enjoy the rest of your break.

Happy birthday to Ella – I can’t believe a year has gone by! Michelle, I hope you are having a lovely day with your lovely granddaughter.

Angela, good luck with your scan but it’s too soon to worry about it yet!! A Halloween weekend sounds like a great idea. As the weather gets cooler, those hot flushes will be a blessing. Ha ha. Not! Meanwhile I’m feeling the cold, I’ve never minded it but nowadays I’m really nesh!

We’re hoping to get down to Devon the weekend after next to see our granddaughter, who will soon be four. We’re planning to take the campervan. So fingers crossed for the weather and also for my bloods, because I don’t want this Friday’s chemo to be delayed!
Love to all of you, Missa,Shi and the gang, good luck with your treatments and don’t forget to have fun.xxx

Morning ladies.
How is everyone? Tatyana I hope your bloods were okay? Did you manage to get to Devon to see your granddaughter?
Our little ones have had nasty coughs so I had to stay away from them at the weekend. ? with my low neuts it’s just too risky.
Michelle have you had your scans yet? How did they go?
Hoping everyone else is well. Xxx

Hi Angela, yes, you guys are great at doing the blood dance, I got my chemo on Friday. That’s two in a row!! Funny how chuffed you can feel, just because you’re well enough to get a nice dose of poison! My haemoglobin is a bit low so I’m trying to cram in lots of iron rich foods. Don’t really like red meat, but did make a lovely chili con carne last night if I do say so myself.
All systems go for our Devon trip, we’re off on Thursday for a long weekend, fingers crossed. Granddaughter spent all day at nursery yesterday dressed as a sheep. As you do. Can’t wait to see her!

Hi tatyana.
Great that your bloods are behaving themselves. Yes, isn’t it crazy some of the things that make us happy now. ? I cheered in the chemo ward when the pharmacist turned up with my meds. I’d waited nearly two hours for him. Never thought I’d be excited to receive that sort of delivery.
I’m not a big red meat eater either. We’re having chilli tomorrow though. I like mine topped with a fried egg. Strange but delicious.
I hope yous have a lovey trip away. I can just imagine the photos. ? they’re just soooo lovely at that age. I’m picking miles up from school today. He’s only four. Had to hold back the tears the first time I saw him in his uniform. ?
Xxx

Hi ladies

Angela I’m pleased your treatment is going smoothly. Tatyana have a great time in Devon. Weather is beautiful today but don’t know if it will last.
I have had a great time last week. We went to Windsor, Bath and finally on to St Ives for a few days. Met with pink ladies last Tuesday in Bath and we chatted for ages. So good to see them x
I’m off to the podiatrist this afternoon to see about my painful feet. ?

Good to hear from you Carole.
Pleased you had a lovely holiday. I’ve never been to Windsor or ST Ives. I’d like to visit both. I was just thinking the other day how little of our own country I’ve seen.
Great you got to meet up with some of your bc friends. ?
I hope the podiatrist managed to help you? My right foot is almost better now. However, I woke up the other morning and my wrist joint was swollen. It had gone down by teatime. Very random. ?
Xxx
P.s. I’ve already posted this once but it isn’t showing so ignore me if I repeat myself.

Morning ladies ??? blood dance for you Tatanya
Scan wwas om but suffering now with pain aa my neck had to be bent backwards then forwards so consultant can see how compromised my spinal ord is in movement ill bloody tell him my neck and arms iare killing today se obd test today not looking forward to it electric pulse signals into arms fingers and muscles to determine which nerve branches are affected and comprising ? wish me luck girls Apparently jt bloody hurts ??
Carole sounds lovely glad you enjoyed
Missa hiya sweetheart if you are checking thread sending you all my ? and ??? and positive vibes
Angela love the twitter stuff btw what a fantastic way of networking and promoting bc stuff to be honest i have bcc and some bc stuff etc but its quite tge community im a total social media novice this is brave for me but we are a little micro community x

Ooo Michelle. That sounds awful. Fingers crossed for today. Can they give you something for the pain beforehand? At least these scans ets should show exactly what’s going on and then hopefully they’ll be able to mange things better for you.
Twitter is great because people are being active trying to achieve better outcomes.
This thread is my little sanctuary though. I can give advice and support to others on other forums but when I need it myself I always come here.
Thanks ladies. Xxx

Hi Carole.
Hopefully you’ll find some relief with the orthotics. You’re absolutely right though, you have to keep moving regardless of the pain. ?
??? absolutely loving this pic. What I’d give to be sitting enjoying a cuppa there right now. Xxx

Carole it looks georgeous there absolutely lovely i agree with Angela
Tatanya glad to hear the ??? is working haha Angela you to hope you are managing to stay away from the nasties atm Ella is loaded again as are my kuds me im on tail end of it managed to swerve it rhanks my old friend boors first defense and manuka haha still have those weirdo that I am ?
Also agree twitter is useful but my haven is in here don’t feel like i can leave or move away from it
You are my booby mates xxx

Ahhh Michelle. I totally agree. You can count me as a booby mate for life.
Hope you are all enjoying the weekend. We’re gardening. If it gets nippy we’ll retreat to the shed for a brandy. ?
Xxx

:heart::heart::heart:booby mates you are the best :heart::heart::heart:FTF that chilli sounds ?with the egg, i’ll Try it next time I make chilli. Mishy, hope Ella feels better soon, there are colds and tripping noses everywhere at the minute ?this time last year it was ? at the ready and sheep dip bath at the front door ??? :heart::heart::heart:you all??:sparkles::sparkles:Shi xx

Morning girls its lovely out perfect autumn weather off to Newburn Riverside nature reserve for a walk with daughter and little one, going to find some acorns to plant and grow a oak in a pot!!
Onc app on Monday got a call from his secretary he wants me to attend clinic to see how i am getting on?!

Missa if you are reading our thread sending you my love and hope everything os going well with your treatment plan
Angela hows things, not long now till your weekend at caravan i bet you can’t wait im needing a little trip i Tatanya i bet you had a lovely time in Devon with your daughter lovely to get away isn’t it
Carole hope your foot isn’t playing up too much
Kimi hi if you see this i hope you are getting along with life ? shi hiya hun bet you are enjoying this October without having the all in one suit or the shrep dip at your door!!!
Hope this weather stays im enjoying it xxx ??
Heres to a lovely weekend ??:female_sign:

Hi Michelle, hi all! Yes it’s so beautiful out of doors, it lifts the spirits. My bloods were playing up again, but bounced back in the nick of time to get yesterday’s chemo done, thank goodness. On condition that I go in on Monday for a blood transfusion! Don’t really mind as it will make me feel better, but it’s a very boring long day!

Had a lovely time in Devon despite the foul weather last weekend! It’s always fun to be in the camper van, and we had a great time with the family. Matilda is a four-year old force of nature!
Hope you are all ok and enjoying the autumn colours. xx

Tatanya im glad you had a nice time and enjoyed Grandma time with the little one they are raring to go at that age
Just got back it was lovely we are really lucky to have such a lovely place so close by only 15 mins away in the car its our go to place lots of beautiful scenery its amazing at the moment with all the Autumn colours its a country park actually with a nature trail but surrounded by the river hence the name Riverside we could have stayed longer but Ella was getting tired so came back ive enjoyed the walk
Tatanya im sorry to hear you have to have a transfusion but as you say it will probably help you feel more energetic take a good book with you on Monday im sure that could distract you im sending the ??? for Monday xxx

Mishy, tatyana, glad you’ve both had some lovely grandma time ???tatyana ???double dance for you for Monday ???sending :sparkles::sparkles::sparkles::sparkles::sparkles:of autumn sunshine to everyone ???:sparkles::sparkles::sparkles::sparkles:Shi xx

Hi lovely ladies

I’ve just given notice on my job. Going to retire-even though that leaves me without income for 6 years. Couldn’t cope with the job any longer. Hope you’re all doing the best you can . xx

Carole, congratulations on making that huge decision! I wish you all the best, it’ll be tough without the money but life will be much better without the pressure of having to drag yourself to a job when you can’t cope through no fault of your own. Your health will benefit, for sure! Sending hugs.xx

Carole im pleased to hear that you have made the best choice for you re the job it is now something that you don’t have to be anxious and worried about you will not regret it ?
Angela you are doing the caravan at Bamburgh for Halloween aren’t you i hope today’s wintery showers were a blip and doesn’t get in the way of your fun, i know you have your scans coming up soon so I hope you are feeling OK about everything.
Ella has a Halloween party on Monday at soft play shes got a little costume ? i think theres a little disco thing for the kids so going along can’t wait
Im seeing Neuro doc on Thursday so I will find out what is what surgery is not what i wanted but if its needed i will do it it, so had onc follow up on Monday had reviewed scans nothing cancer related showing which was obviously good to hear my onc is lovely, a very intelligent and diligent man and a great oncologist, but im not sure he gets it if that makes sense i don’t like being compartmentalised as a statistic he seems dismissive when you want to talk about recurrence surely is a legitimate and reasonable question to ask!!! once the “treatment” is finished i find they can’t get you out of the door quick enough!?