Hi Bluebell,
I concur with what the other ladies have said re-yes, it’s scary reading about other people’s experiences, and yes, to some extent, I do agree that many of the posts are from women who have had a tough time (though I don’t agree with this entirely because when I was diagnosed in 2018 I came on here and learned a heck of a lot from *all* of the posts-in fact they helped me put together my own list of Q’s for my surgeon, oncologist, etc). But what you have to remember is that we are all different. Our pre-cancer health differs, our tolerance for different types of pain and symptoms differ, so whilst we can learn from one another, we must not let another person’s experience lead us to think “that will happen to me”. I met some lovely ladies in my early days of diagnosis-some of whom *stopped* taking Letrozole because they just couldn’t tolerate the symptoms. Of course that caused me some concern, but I didn’t let it stop me from starting Letrozole with as open a mind as possible. Also, keep in mind that when others stop Letrozole, it says more about their own tolerance for symptoms and their own mindset, than about the drug. If 1,000 women/men take Letrozole, there will be 1,000 different variations of how we feel on it. I hope I am making sense. Just because 500 struggle (as an example), doesn’t mean you will. Like one of the others has said-possibly Kay (I can’t see whom while I compose this reply)…she is still able to get on with her daily life/routine, she still exercises, yes, she may feel stiff at times (as do I when I get out of bed and if I sit for too long), but nothing that somebody else with osteoporosis doesn’t experience. Letrozole *is* known to weaken bones, which is why we need Dexa bone scans every other year-but this is manageable. I’ve even had a couple of falls since starting Letrozole (I’m accident prone-not because of the drug)! & yet I did not break any bones-even though they say that Letrozole increases the risk of fractures. And so please don’t be scared-the power of Letrozole (to keep cancer away and shrink it) far outweighs the negative-in MY view. Of course, for others, their view will differ. But given you are going to be starting the drug and need some reassurance, I am here to tell you that the positives outweigh the negatives for many, many of us.
And like one of the others has said, I, too, worked throughout my 20 days of radiotherapy. I had my videocalls in the mornings (it was during lockdown) and then drove myself 45 mins. to and from each way) my radiotherapy sessions. It was fine. I was tired by the end, but that was from the combination of the radiotherapy, the driving, and the stress of it all. We have to remember that a cancer diagnosis and treatment is very stressful, and stress causes it’s own symptoms:).
And just to add, it sounds like the uncertainty of when your treatment will start, given the upcoming strikes, etc. is adding to your anxiety, and understandably so. I started my radiotherapy during the beginning of COVID (end of April 2020)-it was meant to start two weeks prior but hospitals were not taking on cancer patients at that time. All this to say-your treatment will get rolling and you’ll feel like you’re moving forward. For now, try not to worry yourself sick-I know-easier said than done. xxx