Sorry to have upset you. If your daughter is totally fine about you posting about her on an open forum, good, no issue. I’m sorry that upset you to ask about, I was just checking. As a daughter myself, I’d hate it if my mother did, but thats just me, and I shouldn’t of projected.
Thankyou for clarifying the path she is on. It did not initially seem clear that she is both having a lumpectomy and then following a mastectomy from how it was put, not to my mind. Its an unusual path, but nuances happen in individual situations.
I wish nothing but the best care and outcome for your daughter. Didn’t mean to sound lecturing. With hindsight, could of put things better, I’ll take that. I was trying to acknowledge that the ins and outs and complexities of pathways, and changes that occur can be confusing. That from a person going through it pov, its not essential that every detail is understood by supportive people around. Sorry that came across as lecturing.
You appear to have developed much clarity on everything now from your recent reply.
We just happen to have rubbed each other up the wrong way by our communication style at the time. I’ll leave it there. I wish you well.
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