Hi to everyone,Im needing some advice.My husband wants us to cross the atlantic (in our 30ft boat)We sailed long distance for one year before my second BC.But Im worried about…1: My health and safey 2:my daughters are forbidding me to do it 3:I dont feel fit enough…put on two stone 4:How do I get all my prescription drugs? My dr will only give me the first six months 5:We would be renting our house for 5yrs,so wont have a place to come back to. Please could you give me some help,its his dream.Sorry Im so indecisive but everythings so up in the air,he has told so many that we are going.Thanks for listening,take care Debs
Hi Debs
Follow your own dreams not someone else’s. You sound very unsure about this trip and you owe it to yourself to let your husband know how anxious you feel.
Jane
Hello Debs,
Could you husband find a buddy to join him? If your instincts say that you do not want to do the trip, then you should stay at home. This is not going to be an easy decision either way. There is nothing wrong in your husband taking his dream trip with someone else; it is just finding someone else who has the time. But perhaps he would agree to make the trip shorter, five years seems a long time.
Good luck with the negotiations!
Elena