my friend died yesterday

Dont really know what to say other then as the subject header reads. Im just a bit numb today. I knew this lady as a mum from school but then we were both diagnosed with bc within a few months of each other - just 2 years ago. Yesterday I learnt that she died in hospital yesterday, Im not sure of details yet but believe it could have been a chest infection (she had lung mets). I was only speaking to her 2 weeks ago at school and although we all knew about the mets which she was being teated for, and it just seems so unreal that now she wont be there when we go back next week.

have never lost anyone of such a young age before (44 i think) and finding it just a bit sureal really. Lifes not fair is it.

To my friend Aly, you fought a brave fight, you lost the battle way too soon, hope you are at peace now.
Love Vanessa. xxx

Hi Vanessa,

I know how you’re feeling. Last Friday I attended the funeral of a friend of mine who died from cancer of the oesophaegus aged 46. There isn’t much that can make you feel better except to know that they are beyond suffering.

I’m sorry for your loss.

E xx

So sorry to hear of another life lost to this awful disease… thinking of Aly’s family and friends at this sad time…

Theresa x

Thinking of you and Aly’s friends and family.It so hard to lose a friend who is fellow BC sufferer,especially so young.
Take care,
Love n hugs
Dot
xxx

sending love to Vanessa and Elsk, it is so hard to lose a friend, and at such young ages…heartbreaking
condolences to family and friends and love to you both
monica xx

Hi Vanessa & Elsk,

So sorry to hear about the deaths of your friends. I am thinking of all their friends and family during this difficult time.

Lots of Love

Maz

SO SORRY XX

CHICA

love and prayers to all, debs xxx

Deepest sympathy to you and your friends family.We lost my daughters best friend aged 20 to cancer three years ago,and i still cant believe she has gone.it is so sad.

Lots of sympathy.
Liz xx

Sorry to hear Ness, really am. I know you’ll be feeling terrible and shocked for your friend and her family.

I think experience of loosing someone you know and with whom you may draw comparasons with, centralises our own fears for ourselves and families, especially when things seem so unexpected and despite someone being very unwell.

Sincere condolences to you and your friend’s family.
Hugs n Love.
L x

PS If you want to catch up, please pm me and I’ll resend you my details.

thanks for everyone’s messages.
Hi Lea, nice to hear from you, I read your posts on here a bit, Iwill pm u my details to catch up. x

so sorry to hear of your friends death. Far too young too die, sending you my condelences and also thinking of her family at this sad time

Max x