I was diagnosed on Thursday. I’ve already had a CR scan (clear) and a bone scan and today I’m having an MRI. Waiting for full histology and genetic test results. The uncertainty as to what I am facing is making me extremely anxious. My consultant believes it hasn’t spread and signs are that it is unlikely to be genetic. If those are both right then it’ll be a lumpectomy plus relevant treatment. But the not knowing is driving me mad. My heart is racing constantly. Any tips on how to cope?
Thanks!
Hi Rocho and welcome to the forums where you will find lots of support during this worrying time for you
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Hi Rocho
I had 2 weeks between being diagnosed and waiting for a few extra results. I already knew I carried the cancer gene but after opting for a double mast I had to wait to see what my options would be (either fixed implants or tissue donation) I found surrounding myself with friends and family helped those 2 weeks, getting out and about, going to the gym and some nice evenings out helped. The time will be fly by and then you can move onto the next stages x
Hi Rocho , this really is the worst time for you and one that so many of us here have been through ,I can only suggest that you take each day at a time, keep busy and once you have results and have your plan ,believe me things will be so much better .i had my surgery 5 weeks ago and I am now waiting to start radiotherapy, with every step you do feel better because the problem is being sorted, removed, then whatever treatment you need to stop it returning will be decided and you can move forward on your journey to get back to normality in your life . The waiting and not knowing is horrendous and there’s just no point in telling you not to worry!! But just keep active, I’ve been through most of my drawers and wardrobes and had a major sort out!! Use the forum too because everyone here knows exactly how you’re feeling and can help and support you at this time . Sending you loads of hugs xxxx
I was diagnosed on the same day as you. MRI is scheduled for 11th July. I keep reminding myself that I have been diagnosed with breast cancer and have not been given a prognosis of long term ill health. I intend to follow the treatment plan I’m given to the letter and take all the support I am offered. A friend has informed me that although I have cancer - cancer does not have me! So true.
I wish for you as I wish for myself - strength to take each step, hope for a long and fulfilled future and for all of us, support for our healing journey.