Hi Rach04,
There are many who have chemo before surgery and it looks like you are responding well - such good news at such a difficult time.
It must be quite challenging to have such a diagnosis so early in your life.
I do not know what your actual cancer is and what your receptors are. Did they do a biopsy and tell you?
My guess is that the final piece of your diagnosis will fall into place, once you have had your operation, as the removed tissue will be examined in great detail in pathology. This will give your treatment team a very clear picture of what is likely to happen moving forward and how to make sure, as much as it is possible, that you will be ok.
I was diagnosed with a lobular invasive, which is ER positive. As initially the tumour looked quite small and the biopsy was a grade two - the treatment team decided on a mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. My pathology results, however showed that the tumour was much larger and grade 3 in areas. Thankfully, the 3 nodes, which were removed at the same time, all came back clear. So currently I am going through chemo (FEC number 4 just done) and then radiation therapy. My prognosis for the future, going through all of this treatment is very good - I shall collect my pension one of these days, lol!
Having node involvement is not necessarly going to make things much worse. Your currrent chemo regime will not only deal with your tumour, but also with rouge cells, should they have survived the travel through all of your other lymph nodes.
Like you, I have very few side effects with my chemo.
You might like to join us on the June starters chemo thread to share your experience and see how others are getting on - it is a great and very lively thread.
forum.breastcancercare.org.uk/t5/Chemotherapy-monthly-threads/June-2016-starters/m-p/1017898#U1017898
I am not sure, but have you found this area, which is specifically for younger women?
forum.breastcancercare.org.uk/t5/Younger-women-and-families/bd-p/4449
You might also find it interesting to have a thorough read of this specific blog hbocuninformed.blogspot.co.uk/2014/10/everything-ive-learned-so-far-about-tax.html
as you may be able to identify with many of the subjects covered in it - and it is also by a young women, too.
We are all here to help and support, as and when you need it.
Hugs
Sue xxx