Not sure I can handle this....

Hi all

I haven’t been on the forums here for soooo long, most of you won’t remember me. I was dx in Nov 07 with Grade 3 her+bc which resulted in right mast. Had 4 x fec, 1 x tax (long story lol - those that remember me will know lol) and then 3 x fec, 20 rads and finished a year of herceptin in July this year. I went back to work last September to a brand new job, working full time. Thoroughly enjoy it, and boss is a good friend who has worked round the weekly trips to hossie (I had hickman line fitted for herceptin so had to go every week to get it flushed). Was really feeling like things were picking up and it was safe to raise my head above the parapet again, so to speak. Sorry if this is long…

That was until I got called for my first check up,2 weeks ago, when they were going to decide how often I had to come back for routine checks etc. First appt was just with consultant onc, for physical examination. I had been getting a bit of pain in left arm funnily enough - which onc thought just needed physio - but have had no other problems. Onc examined mast site, and asked if I’d ever felt the lump she could feel. Hello??? Of course I hadn’t or else I’d have been back! So she said she would take a biopsy there and then, and I would get an appt to go back the following week.

Appt letter duly arrived for the following Wednesday morning, followed by another appt letter the next day saying I had an appt for my mammogram on the left side on the Tuesday. So, quite unworried, given that I had just undergone a physical examination to the left side which revealed nothing - I trotted off to the mammo on the Tuesday. Having finished the mammo, they asked me to wait while they checked the films… then they asked me into the ultrasound room, at which point I knew something wasn’t right. "Something’was showing on the films that was a ‘substantial change’ over the previous years film which they wanted to check. Lo and behold the ultrasound couldn’t find it, so they said I’d have to come back the next week (this week) for an xray guided needle biopsy.

Now I was worried! Then trotted off the next day to get the results of the previous weeks biopsy and was kind of relieved to be told it was scar tissue and nothing else. But the nurse giving me that result didn’t know I’d been scheduled for another biopsy so couldn’t quite understand why I wasn’t bouncing about with joy!

I went for the second biopsy yesterday afternoon. Had to endure the mammo again, then the ultrasound - at which they still couldn’t pick it up, but they showed me the area on the mammo films - and there’s deffo something there! So I had to go back in the mammo machine for 25 mins (!!!) so they could use the xray film to guide them in with the needle. Took 8 sections away - and then told me how good I’d been (pretty hard to be anything else when they have your one remaining boob clamped hard in that flippin machine!).

I have to wait till next Tuesday for the results - have just had the appt letter today. My mind has now gone into overdrive…particularly as my original prognosis was not good for chance of recurrence.

To the outside world I’m putting on this face that says ‘I’ve done it once, I can do it again’… but inside I’m absolutely terrified… with my sensible head on I know it could be hundreds of other things apart from the cancer returning but then my sensible head doesn’t appear to be putting in much of an appearance at the moment.

Im not really sure what I’m looking for here…I just needed to vent I think - sorry

Magz

You vent away - how awful for you and I go for first check in January - I was supposed to go December 21 but didnt want to spend Christmas thinking about it so put it off for first week in January.

You have been through it and that should show you just how tough you are and so strong to do all that you have managed.

God bless and hope that the results are good and you again can breathe with a smile.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Magz, Sorry that you are having to go through all this yet again…the tests…the waiting for results…the worry of it all… Next Tuesday sounds a long way off and the waiting for results is always the hardest part of it all. Feel free to vent your feelings here. We have all had similar worries and it is good be able to “talk” to people who actually know what you are going through. I am having a CT Scan tomorrow and see my Consultant on Friday next week for the results, so I know what the waiting is like. Let us know how you get on. Love Val

Hello Magz
so sorry that this is happening, its so hard isn’t it, going through all of the tests etc again, waiting for results, putting on that brave face and churning away inside.
There are lots of us to ‘listen’, so please, keep venting, and anything else that’ll help
love
monica x

Thank you all for your comments - I’m trying very hard to put it all to the back of mind till next week…no point worrying till I know what I’m worrying about!

Mags,

I remember you quite well. I was dx a month after you and remember how you suffered on taxotere.

I know its frightening about appointments but maybe they are just being extra thorough due to you history.

I know easier said than done but try to be positive about this about it. I too am due my mammo on tuesday next week and am worried too hoping all will be okay.

Please have faith and be strong. We have been through so much and we have no choice but to continuing to be strong.
If you want to pm me you can.
take care
sukes

Good luck Magz. Fingers crossed for you.
Take care
Anthi x

Thanks again everyone.

I remember you too Sukes - we went through quite a lot of treatment together as I remember.

Funnily enough, since I typed my first post I have gone into some kind of serene state of not caring at all. It’s really strange, people keep asking me if I’m worried about it all, and that’s when I remember I’m waiting for results ! I don’t know if it’s my brain blocking it all out or what - but I can honestly say I don’t give it a thought from one day to the next. However, when I do give it a thought - I worry that I’m being too calm and expecting everything to be ok - and it won’t be - if that makes sense!!

Not sure I fully understand any more what my mind/brain is capable of lol but hey ho - Tuesday’s closer now than it was before.

Thank you for all your kind words - I will let you know how I get on.

Magz

Hi Magz
All the best for today.
Kind regards and thoughts Alicexx

good luck!

Jane x

Thank you for all your support. I am so relieved - results came back that it is just benign fibrous tissue, not a problem and unless it grows to the extent that it bothers me - they are leaving it alone.

I am sooo so happy, Can go away and get on with my xmas now - and look forward to the birth of my grandchild - due on christmas eve!!

Once again - thank you all for being there for me xxx

Margaret

Hi Magz, that is fantastic news, I am so pleased for you!
have a lovely christmas and enjoy that grandbaby to bits
love, monica xx

thats great really pleased for you xxxx

Hi Magz

I remember you well, we were dx around the same time. I am now in the position you were in 2 weeks ago, Went annual mammo and U/S, they hunted around for a long time seemed to spen an age on one area, same question, have you felt a lump here before ERRR NOOO!!!, anyway cutting a long story short had the is a shadow there, its in a new place, biopsy taken, results on Tuesday, now is the waiting game!!!

Any way Mags nice to see you again, just wish it was better circumstances

xxx