Hi all,
im posting on behalf of my sister and wonder if any of you can offer support/advice or anything that might help her get through a long 24 hours. My sister was diagnosed with BC 2 years ago and had a lumpectomy followed by radiotherapy and is now on 5 yrs of tamoxifen. It’s been emotionally charged for all of us but especially her as mum was diagnosed with secondary bc last October ( before the primary cancer was found- quite A shock) and my sister is now her primary carer as well as going through genetic testing as that makes at least five women on the same side of the family with a history of BC.
during all this my sister has amazed me and just got on with things but recently she found a lump just as mum had been diagnosed. They did an u/s and told her that it was an oily cyst and nothing to be done. That was in December Last. However the lump has been growing and its hard and painful so my sister went back and saw someone today. The doctor didnt have the best people skills and after making her wait for two hours coz the clinic was running late, told her he really didnt know what it was but she should have an ultrasound straight away. Then told her the screening clinic was now closed! So she has to go back tomorrow afternoon.
My sister sobbed down the phone to me and I can tell its all getting too much. She doesn’t feel up to posting on here right now but agreed for me to do it and see if I could get any support for her.
Obviously, she’s worried about recurrence but also she says its really painful and they were talking of doing a mammogram which she is now terrified of. Does anyone else have experience of post surgical oily cysts? She says she can’t bear the pain of this and the doctor said if it is an oily cyst they will leave it alone.
any thoughts, support etc I could share with her would be apappreciated thanks all
Mals x