Post op check up

Post op check up

Post op check up Have my post op check up on Monday after my mastectomy four weeks ago…not really looking forward to it but am having an ok sort of day…never mind it will soon be Tuesday…Hopefully!

Does the feeling of not feeling like a whole woman ever go away?

presumably they will talk about what treatment next at this appt?
the feeling of not being a whole woman again is an individual thing i think. i had a mastectomy in nov 05 and have not had recon, yes it would be nice to have a boob in place but i am the person i was before and having a boob is only part of who i am. my hubby still wants me so in that respect i do feel like a whole woman. i do tend to look at things logically and i think that helps.
i have had the tears and tantrums as well but am learning to be at peace with my life now.
i am trying not to waste time dwelling on things now as we are only here a short time.
( in the back of my mind is the scared person)
i am back at work and i think that also helps.
take care
sharon. x

Well, we shall have to wait and see what the doc says tomorrow… 9am is the appointment, she says with a quiver in her voice and a shake in the hand…Ha ha.