really worried

Just a quick question Angela, has the Dr given you some antibiotics to see if it has any effect? and he has have they had any effect?

Have a wonderful weekend

Linda
xxx

Hi there Angela.

Just want you to know that I am thinking about you, and will be keeping my fingers crossed for Monday.

Love Jules xx

Thanx jules

Hi linda yes he did give me antibiotics but nothing but have had abscesses before and it took two courses then still had to have it cut out but never on my breast but ill put that in my mind till monday cause im worrying myself sick.I know I have to be realistic and i am but if I keep this in my head till Monday perhaps I can sleep

Thanks you are all wonderful on here and I admire your courage

love Angela

Ps Linda he also said dont think they will work but dont worry(as if)thats why i got worried in the first place then he tapped me on the back and said if its bad news theyll sort it.Hes a good doctor but couldnt get out of there I think I ran faster than lingford christie lol

God sitting here alone ,friends supposed to come down but couldn’t and kids are out hope they wont be long cos they are my world. Feeling a bit low now (probably because I’ve had a bit of alcohol and that makes you think even more) so I’m going to watch tele now and stop researching sites and stop bugging everyone.Sorry everyone thats been so caring just i’ve got no one else to talk to because i dont want to stress my family out,even though they would understand i just dont want to worry them.Sorry but im really scared and i bet you lot on here who are so caring have been through so much more than me.I admire you all and wish you all the best

love Angela

Oh hunny, I am sorry your in by yourself and worrying. I am sending cyber hugs in your direction. Please remember that Linda and I are thinking about will be here to support you if you need us, but lets hope you will come back and say its just an infection.

If you want to swap emails and talk in private, let me know ok. YOU are NOT bugging anyone ok, we are here to help! But remember, you are not alone ok.

Love Jules xxxx

sorry Jules im so ignorant i havnt even asked you what u have been through hope you are doing ok but am i just being paronoid or did you go through this

love Angela

Angela,
My cousin had to return to the clinic last week after a dodgy mammogram and like most people was absolutely fine.She was worried because I’ve been undergoing treatment and had worried herself silly.Even if you are unlucky enough to have a bad diagnosis you will find a lot of support and information on this site.If you have any questions about anything at all someone is always bound to have the appropriate knowledge about everything from symptoms to treatment.
I do hope all is well on Monday.Take care
Tricia

Hi Angela, NO your are not ignorant!!! YOU have so so much on your plate at the moment. I think you are being really strong and am praying Monday will be good news for you.

I had a lump at the begining of April, and had the usual tests, including FNA and Core Biopsy. I then had surgery. Took eight weeks to find out, but I got the ALL CLEAR!!! But the wait seemed like for ever, but that was only because my biospy results came back inconclusve, most people know within a week for sure.

The reason i was on the site was because my mum was dx with breast cancer exactly a month before and is in the middle of treatment. It was because of her dx I thought I had better check my breasts and low and behold there was a lump, but it all turned out ok in the end thank god!! You are not being paranoid, your being normal, worrying is normal, I would be more concerned if you wern’t bothered! So no your not paranoid sweetie.

Mum is doing really well, she had a mastectomy in July and is in the middle of rads (radiotheraphy) at the moment. She is very tired though. Hubby and I are staying at a friends Flat in Brighton for four days and hoped mum and the family would be able to come down tomorrow for lunch as its her birthday, but the rads have made her exhausted. But apart from that shes doing ok.

Remember just shout or if you want to talk privately PM me.

Love Jules xxxxx

Thanks girls for everything and sorry about last night was feeling a bit lonely.My friend is coming down in a bit so that means more alchohol lol but she is my best friend and I can tell her anything.
Her dad passed away 6 weeks ago of cancer but fought it for 3 years and she is a very caring friend.
Thanks Linda for your e-mail address it was very kind of you.
Jules glad your mum is doing well and thank you for being so caring.

All my love to you all

Angela

Hi, I’m new to this site, I also found a lump just over two weeks ago, I’ve had the needle biopsy and the core one,(think that’s what there called) I was told both biopsies are clear but the lump doesn’t look “A typical” so its being removed on 30th of this month, I’m petrified, keeping a good from on for the family but I’m going out my mind. Reading your comments on this has helped though, thank you

Sorry that should have said keeping a good front for the family !!!

Welshgal, I want you to know I will be thinking of you tomorrow, and please let me know how you get on. Infact I am going to pm my private email address incase you want to talk on there. Fingers crossed and huge hugs.

Marg1066, I hope my story about my biopsies being inconclusive, but after having my lump removed it being benign has helped you.

Jules xx

Hi Angela

Just a short note that evrything goes well for you tomorrow, let me know what happens,
I will be thinking about you

Linda
x

Angela, I keep checking to see if you have posted, let us know hun. xxx

Hi girls sorry I havnt let you know anything but I’ve been in hospital,came out yesterday.Couldn’t go for my appointment on Monday as mt G.P sent me to hospital as my lump became infected and had have it removed.They have removed a large abscess which i have to have packed every day by the district nurses.The doctor at the hospital has referred me for a scan to see what the underlying cause of this problem is but I’m pretty sure it was an abscess that I left for too long without treatment.So I think I can say I’ve been one of the lucky ones(thank god).

I thank you all for your concern and support and I will keep in touch(if you all dont mind) to see how you are all doing.

Lots of love
from a happy Angela

I am so pleased for you Angela,although only us BC gals could be glad of an infected abcess! LOL!
I do hope it clears up soon as the packing can’t be pleasant!
Hugs
Dot
x

Oh Angela, I am over the moon for you!!! I was so worried, been checking every day to see how things were. Please keep in touch. I have given you my email address not sure if you have it as its got lost in the postings.

Love Jules xxxx

Hi Angela

I am extremely pleased for you, I was very concerned, keep in touch and let us know how you get on

Linda
x