Hello
I would be grateful for your experiences and advice. My background - BRCA1, age 37, diagnosed with BC Grade 2 Stage 1 in October 2010, bilateral mx with expander recon December 2010. Very happy with recon so far BUT -
June 2011 a lump at the front of the implant (same side as last time), very quickly diagnosed as new stage 1 grade 1. Will need rads almost certainly, chemo poss.
And I just don’t know what to do next. Options: 1) take out implant on cancer side and go flat, have largest possible amount of skin taken away, have implant exchanged on good side. 2) deflate but keep implant on cancer side, excise the lump but keep some skin to hold implant, rads run risk of damaging implant but still have 2 breast shapes - this is higher risk since I keep more skin. Surgeon 1 less happy about this option, surgeon 2 says it is ok. 3) take out both implants and go breast free, wearing prosthetics as and when I feel like it. Delayed recon possible with own tissue.
Every day I come to a different conclusion. Yesterday I thought it would be very hard for me only to have one breast shape and I felt that committed me to another recon later on so I was convinced I would go flat. Today I think I am underestimating the impact of being flat and that I will regret taking out the shape on the good side and possibly even regret taking out the shape on the bad side.
Have any of you gone flat on both sides? Do you wear prosthetics? Have you had a bilateral delayed recon? Grateful for your experiences. Do you have a similar experience? Thank you.
Claire2010