Have been recalled after a mammogram and words can’t describe how terrified I feel. I had a mammogram 3 years ago and everything was fine so was not expecting a problem this time. I’m trying to think positive as the letter says most people are given the all clear but a little part of me keeps thinking ‘what about the rest?’ I have my appointment on Monday but really wish I knew why I was being called back - even though logically I know that’s not something you need to be told in a letter! I’m trying to keep things normal but feel totally overwhelmed.
Hello Michele52,
Just saw your post and didn’t want to think of you getting no reply. I really understand what you’re going through right now. It is totally terrifying, and the waiting is the worst part of it. Have you got anyone to talk to about your fears? If not, then call the helpline - they will listen and give you advice. I know it’s hard and what we all dread but if there is a problem with your breast, rest assured it will be dealt with quickly and you will be given the treatment you need to move on. There are hundreds of women and men on here who have been where you are now and they will help you, so keep talking and take comfort from them. I know it’s hard, but try not to let your mind run away with you. There’s a good chance that you will be fine. Sending you hugs x Lily
Thank you. It is good to know I’m not alone but it’s so hard not to let my thoughts run away with me especially when I look at my children. I have my appointment on Monday so at least I will have some idea of why I’ve been called back. I’m terrified about that and then terrified that I will have to have a biopsy and wait for results. I keep thinking ‘what if’ which I know is not helpful. I can remember telling my mum not to think about what if but to deal with things ha one step st a time when she was diagnosed with lung cancer a few years ago. However finding it hard to follow my own advice. Thank you for your support it means a lot.
Thank you. Just want to know what’s going on but it has been so good to have your support. Can’t thank you enough for being there. I hope that you are doing well and please know that my thoughts are with you too. Love and hugs Michele x
Lily you are amazing and I am glad that things are getting better for you. Words can’t express how grateful I am that you have taken the time to support me. Have spent the day trying not to think about tomorrow by keeping myself busy. However the nerves are beginning to get the better of me and the tears have been flowing which seems silly as I have no idea what the problem is. I will let you know how things go and I’m sending you love and hugs. Michele x