STARS- support group/network (Hampshire)

MummyV!! …What a shameless alcoholic and poor example to your piers! I LOVE it!!!

Poor you Ruth. I am fed up with my pot belly so slim line tonic for me and no crisps and nuts !!

Ok ladies,

one slim line tonic (with a crafty nip of gin) for rachy7
one long line of assorted alcoholic beverages for mummyv
one big Thank you to Guardian Angel who rang me yeaterday. It was really good to talk to you and you are wlcome to any of the meetings any time and our virtual ladies lounge is open 24/7 so pop in any time. Just a thought we are planning a family day to a local zoo to see Santa at Xmas, i’ve mentioned it before but maybe you could come down for that, if not before.

Take care ladies
Ruth

it was my pleasure! am so glad you’re feeling better.

As to the zoo and santa trip - sounds great. Will try to make it down as my LO’s (little one’s) will love it.

Ok, now the serious stuff: I want a mojito, and also a Long Island Ice Tea.

K xx

Hi there,

What is a mojito?
>>>>>>>>Ruth serves a refreshing Long Island Ice Tea.

The zoo is called Marwell, just so you have an idea of distance. Its got the usual animals and a fabulous Giraffe house. The Winter Wonderland was great last year they made the whole Santa experience really exciting. They also make a small ice rink and sell roasted chestnuts etc.

Ruth

A Mojito is simply one of the best cocktails!!! I love them. It’s essentially made of five ingredients: white rum, sugar, lime, carbonated water and mint. It’s fab as it is not too sweet and quite refereshing. Plus, it doesn’t look so naff, you know, when you order some drinks they just look so silly that you feel like a bit of a try hard nob when you drink them. Trust me, you will enjoy them (nb, that it is in the plural as you can never just have one, but lots!)

as to the zoo - will check is out and esp keen as to the winter wonderland.

K x

Ok Ladies,

Its ‘Happy Hour’!.. The drinks are on me! Its Friday!

What can I get you?
>>>>Ruth disappears behind bar to produce several cocktails and jugs of Sangaria!?
>>>>Places large bowls on the bar with lovely nibbles and Tapas!!!
>>>>Raises eyebrows and smirks when…Rex the new cocktail waiter arrives for his first shift!!

MummyV! Down girl!! Deep breaths!!

Ruth

Happpppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppy Hour… Yes… BOGOF. Making the most of my alcohol consumption before big DIEP in two weeks. Okay Ruth line em up…
Rose for starters.
Oh you’ve recruited the new boy…N I C EEEEE…
Lovely Rose Ruth you like the Californian stuff. Good.
Now the sun is shining intermittently so I’ll treat you all to a jug of Pimms on me, happy hour I hear. Okay two jugs!!! Lots of mint plllllllllllllllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeee Rex. Making lots of eye contact.
He’s lovely, where did you get him? I like a rugby man. ooooooooo
Right then tequila, what Rex you want us to do what with the salt on your NAKED torso! Good God the ladies of STARS are not like that at all. We have our squeeky clean reputations to think of. The doctors will never endorse our reconstructions if they thought we were those sort of girls!
Off to church now ladies!
Salut

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Oh Rex I fink I lurve you…
Of course I lurrrrrrrrrvvve ya

Hi Rachy7,

Just wondered how the Rads were going? Hope all is well.

Take care
Ruth

Hello Ruth, Rads going ok - only had 2 so far but getting up early is the worst bit of it. Early days yet so no real side effects yet.

Rach

Hello everyone,

Just a breif note…

Been thinking of you ALL this week. You are all amazing ladies, so wherever you are and what ever you are doing have the best weekend you can with your loved ones… and that little bit of sunshine I can see.
((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

Ruth

Feeling pretty cyber rough this morning but still up at 6am to go for a nice long walk. In the sun this morning!!! Clouds on their way so make the most of it! Makes you feel so much better.xxx

Good evening ladies,
>>>>pours self perfectly chilled glass of Wolf Bass, snuggles into leather armchair and stretches across table to help self to olives.

My little brain has been on overdrive. Re: Christmas outing to Marwell I think its a good idea to agree a date between those that wish to come because as soon as the Winterwonderlord tickets are availble I can make a block booking. (Tickets prices for this was £5 last year). They get booked up really quickly!!!

I know we have agreed a date of 6th December for the Christmas dinner (evening with OH). So can you let me know what date you would prefer from (I am assuming Sat and Sun are better)
November 29th and 30th December 6th and 7th Sunday 21st December . We will discuss at lunch at the next meeting but this is incase some people cant make that but would like to come to Marwell.
Hope you are all ok and enjoyed your weekend.
Ruth

Hello…
Ruth

I’m in a real dilemma - as can swallow and eat quite well but not sure how I’ll be in December for evening out. What’s the latest I can leave it to book that?
Same with Marwell - any date OK with me/family but depends on how I am.
At least I don’t need to cyber eat food now - I can actually eat it so had chicken and rice yesterday in mushroom sauce.
Alcohol - I’ve gone right off it but if you could arrange a cocktail or two I might be tempted to return this evening - especially if they are strawberry flavoured.
Kate

Hi Kate,

Re: Xmas dinner, there may be 2 ways around it. Leaave your decision until the last minute and I can always book you a place nearer the time as I am sure they could an extra place at the table. Or I would think they will ask for a deposit from each of us so I could book you a place and if you dont go you may lose your deposit (although someone may wish to come in your place). I’ll have more info at the next meeting, if not before.
Glad you can eat/swallow a bit easier. I love chicken and mushroom.
Ruth

Cheers Ruth. Sorry just a orange and lemonade for me tonight, I have my pre op tomorrow afternoon dont want them tapping into my veins and getting californian merlot!
Oops sorry eaten all the nuts!
Au revoir.
Vanessa

Vanessa,

Good luck with the pre op assessment. I get the results of my overy removal op today. Should be ok (where have I heard
that before?) but still a bit apprehensive.

Ruth

Saw surgeon…only a few results back, all ok but te main ones are still being processed!!! Theres a delay, apparently, I suppose that could be bad news but they seem to think they are really busy with a new system. Find out next week.

Large brandy …barman>>>

Ruth