Wow what a response, thank you so much all of you for your comments. We were both not looking forward, and looking forward to today if you get my meaning, mixed emotions. This said it was not as bad as we thought. For some strange reason the treatment room was very quiet, all day, us up one end and someone else at the other, it’s normally throbbing, sun was shining and with a good seat by the window a gentle breeze blew in, lovely and quiet too, very relaxing and quite strange. No wait, everyone on time, nurses great everybody smiling today, really very strange.
Sue had both her normal biophosphate infusion today and the tax, normal 4 weekly biophosphate aborted on friday due to veins, as soon as nurses got wind of Sue having pic line put in yesterday they decided to do all at once today, wonder why!. Was scheduled to take nearly all day but Sue just could not get on with the cold cap, too much pressure on forehead causing pain - this was swiftly abandoned. The only reason she wanted to do it is that our 2 year old daughter has got a real thing about hair, its a comforter, if she is lying in bed with us she gets both hands and both feet in it all at once, both Sue and I are fair game, likes the feel of it between her toes, I don’t know where she gets this from, been like this since a baby, she also gets her finger stuck in her own from hair twirling and needs cutting out on occasions.
Hospital provided drugs pack which inculded mouthwash, steroids, anti-sickness etc. She crashed out this afternoon and has been asleep for ages. Fortunately I was made redundant 2 months ago and have been holding the fort so to speak, with much more hard graft ahead I am sure, yes I have learnt all sorts of additional domestic skills and do pretty much the lot and boy its hard, I really take my hat off to all mums especially if working too, how the hell do you do it? Whats the secret Diane1w?
I wish I could reply to all individually but some really usefull things to watch out for here, the masking of possible temp rise by taking pain killers very usefull to know, drinking water and nails + tingelling o.k. Infection yes they did stress this, a bit of a worry this one with kids they pick up some nasty things, fortunately its not Sue that gets given them, its always me. Thanks jetty for mouthwash tip and soft brush. Eating like a horse this is good Sue needs to gain weight. Foot massages, hmm Sue can’t bend that far yet, down to me, I think she is going to enjoy that bit!
Got our minds focused on the mini cruise we had booked as a last min. deal 3 days before we were told news about liver progression, Iceland and Norway, 5 weeks to go, the look of horror on the ONC’s face said it all really so looks like it may be off but I am not telling Sue yet.
Jo thanks, I may call when things quieten down a bit, any ideas why I can’t use spell checker, is it not working? I am constantly embarrasing my self here, (typical engineer) sorry.
Sorry for long reply, it just helps me in a funny way. Thank you all for taking your valuable time to respond and your kind wishes I will be printing this off to show Sue. Our very best wishes to you all also.
take care
DaveF