Ladies,God help the USA!!I can’t really join in as I’m not single ,but I can fantasise right !!!Have to be careful not to get myself into trouble like Zayn though…You will have to watch out for the Paparazzi trying the set me up,“member of 7B caught showing dented boob to handsome San Franscisan …”
Haha like your style girls. Mael know what u mean mine was non existant going through treatment and tamoxifen is supposed to lower your sex drive although i did read on here some women have had the opposite effect. Guess i’m one of those!! Bring on the tamoxifen i say one of the bonuses of taking it! Xxx indeed God help the US of A!!! ?xxxx
Good luck tomorrow Mael and remember fingers crossed for the Marsden xxx
Mael, you will get up in the morning xxx
No definites when working with people, that’s the difference from doing a job like yours Mael,the number of times I have said " if only I had a crystal ball" when making life changing decisions about peoples lives, but we don’t, we can only make an educated guess about what happens next and go with that with the best intentions ,and hopefully treat people with respect and explain why we have come to that decision in a way they can understand , oh and tell them how they can get the support to challenge if they so wish .Im not in health care,I work in social care devices .
That should be social care services,I phone likes to mix it up ,social care devices, interesting …
Thanks June you sweetie. I’m sure you’ll join me in hoping that you get some reassurance tomorrow Mael. And remember you still have the possibility of the Marsden. In my experience they don’t push you into anything you don’t want to do. I couldn’t even go for an mri at first i was so scared and my fab surgeon didn’t force me. He said thats fine don’t worry we’ll do it with ultrasound instead. Big hugs to everyone. So even if you don’t get satisfaction tomorrow you still have the second opinion route Mael. Hugs Dee xxxx
June, thank you…Wish you told me earlier about bath thing, I must have a certain odur about me now…
Mael…I am going to come and see you,
**bleep**, Crap and more **bleep**!!!
Would you like someone to keep you company for appointments?
We are all scared, nothing is going to happen to us,
But our own fear…
So what would you like mael xx
Mael, perhaps it’s a good idea to take your boss along with you today, he sounds like a wonderful person. Like dawn I would have offered my services but am soo very far away x it’s good to have someone whom you can trust and he seems to be honest with you, he can take notes in case you are not taking it all in?
whatever happens today, tomorrow and in the future just be assured that I am here to support you in any way I can
love love love
sheena xxxx
Morning everyone, hopefully you are all sound asleep and in the land of beautiful dreams…
Mael I am not a Londoner, I live in one of the most beautiful parts of the UK…Sunny Wales…
To get the hospital today I have to drive past the beach, shame it is raining as usual!!
I have a confession to make, one of my visitors brought me a bottle of wine, not a great vintage
But Wow it did the trick…
I had a glass last night, and another and just drank untill I finished the bottle…
With my new drunken confidence I placed my self in front of mirror and looked!!
Well I have 1 breast and 1 bloob just has I thought!!
I do like London, so when I get well enough prephaps I will pop up to see you…
Prehaps when we are all back too not so normal we can arrange a tits union!! 
Mael
I totally agree with Sheena, why go on your own…
You need someone there…
I don’t know if this will help…I have told my breast nurse that when she gets the results from my test she is too ring me and tell me over the phone…
She told me that this is not procedure and I would have to be there with her and the surgeon…
I explained that I have never had a drama what ever they have told me, and I have to take a friend to all hospital appointments and It is unfair for me to put my friend in this position…
So unless you tell me over the phone before hand I am not coming to appointment!!!
Of course I won!!!
So maybe you can phone this morning, Only if you can handle the News on your own!!!
Good Luck xxxx
Good luck today thinking of you…
Billy and I have decided to give it another go, he came back with me from hospital!!!
He is getting on my nerves already xx
Thursday back in hospital, he certainly is clinging on!!
He had better be gone by weekend!!
Not that I have any plans, but you never know!! xxx
Mael how did you get on today ? Xx
I am in the waiting room. Dawn
Fingers Crossed and everything else xxx
It was over in seconds. I just had to agree that I understood that given my state, I will have to have a ton of radios, more than I was supposed to. New surgeon MUCH better than previous one.
Good that you like your new surgeon xx
Mael!!! Xxxx
That’s great your happier with medical team, and now you can make plans for the next stage. Delighted for you, I know that is a strange thing to say, but I think I understand where you are coming from
perhaps a little bit of celebration this evening?
love ya!
Sheena xx
Really pleased for you Mael they are listening to what you want. Rads is ok my tit has healed nicely and now i can wear a bra! Going back to work was fine today everyone was very supportive, kids had made me a massive card from the year group i’m head of. Could have cried all i got all day was ‘Miss you’re back’’ and massive smiles.
Dawn i do hope Billy is gone by the weekend xxxx ? He can’t outstay his welcome! Xxx