Thanks Theresa

Hi
Thanks Theresa for pointing me to this IBC subforum.

As you say there are not many of us IBC ladies about. My IBC was picked up very quickly by my hospital. I was on holiday last year and found a lump under my arm in what I now know to be a lymph node.I had had a clear mammogram only months before so was not in the least bit worried. On checking the internet it said it was possibly an infection, not to worry but wait and see. Weeks later when a large lump materialised in my breast together with a pinking up of the skin and a warmer than normal feeling I took myself off to the GP. She immediately refered me to our breast clinic where they did ultrasound and biopsies. I expected to be told it was mastitis and went alone to the results clinic where the surgeon dropped the bombshell that it was BC and in fact a rare type of BC called IBC. His estimate was 1-2% of diagnosed BC is this type.I saw an onc immediately and within 2 weeks had had MRI, CT and Bone scan and was started on chemo, 4 AC/4Tax.

Surgery followed in February this year. I requested that the’healthy’breast was removed along with the BC one because of a really bad family history. I was in and out of hospital inside 24 hours into the care of an Early Discharge Team. The drains and seromas caused a bit of a problem which delayed rads but am now 9 down with 6 to go.

Now I have found out a bit more about IBC and its terrible survival rate I try to tell myself that I am the one who is going to beat the odds. That is on the days when I am wearing my sensible head. On other days when my Panic head had attached itself I find myself in a very dark place considering how my family will carry on without me.

I finish rads next week, then continue with a year of Herceptin of which I have had 8 out of 18 doses so far, and 5 years of Taxoxifen, although 2 different oncs have suggested 2 different drugs One is Tamoxifen and the other one begins with an L and at the moment the name escapes me(Do we ever recover from chemo brain). I hope I can continue life without becoming too paranoid about secondaries. My oncologist comments try not to worry too much, Let us do the worrying for you.Some Hope!

This site sometimes reassures me and sometimes frightens the life out of me. It depends which threads I read and my frame of mind at the time.I have not come across anyone else at my hospital with this type of BC so the contact here with other IBC ladies is invaluable.

Thanks everyone for your support

Andie

Hi Andie - glad to see you have found us…:smiley: Must admit this section is alot quieter than most on here as there are so few of us…

I am just coming up to my one year anniversary of being diagnosed… (May 27th) so lots of thinking about it all at the moment…
I also have a dreadful family history and wanted them to remove both breasts - but unfortunatly i never saw the surgeon from the day i was diagnosed until just before my op - and when i mentioned it then he said i could not have one as it would have to be countersigned by another surgeon as the breast was healthy - and the small unit at my hospital only had one surgeon… This was really annoying as the bcn must have known this - but had never told me when i mentioned i wanted both done at once…:frowning:

I had my first mammogram earlier this week and a CT scan as i’ve been having some breathlessness recently - so waiting for the results on that… I don’t think the worries will ever really go away though…

I’m also on tamoxifen for 5 years - although they have said they think really with IBC I will now be on some hormone treatment or another for life… I’m her -

Hello Andie (and Theresa),

Firstly Theresa, I hope the wait for your results is not too long, I know the waiting is awful.

Andie, I think the hormonal might be Letrozole (Femera). The hormonal will depend on your hormonal status, pre or post menopause, treatment can interfere with this so they will need to do a blood test.
I’m on my third hormonal (just greedy I guess)extemesatane.
Was dx in 2005 and heading for my 4 year anniversary, though I have been on constant treatment I am back working and generally fine apart from pesky skin mets.

Best wishes
Jackie x

Hello and welcome to Andie and hi again to Theresa and Jackie

Like you on good days I try to be positive and think that they removed all of the cancer and my previous bone, liver and lung scans were ok, but, reading the odds, well they can be stacked against us, but these days with better treatment like chemo first maybe we have more to be positive about, lets hope so.

All I know is that its not a good future to be constantly worrying about what might happen next, and I hope that in time this will ease.

I’ve just had my 15th herceptin today and it stresses me about what happens when it ends. I’m hormone negative.

Anyway, the ladies here are very helpful so you can throw any questions our way and we definitely support each other.

Take care all, good luck Theresa with your results and hope the waiting game passes quickly.

Have a nice weekend

Love Carole xx