Hello @boilergirl . I am so sorry that you have had this diagnosis . I am pleased that you found this group because it has been really helpful to me In the last year .
My tumour was 6mm in my left breast, but it had spread to one of my lymph nodes. I also had some DCIS in my right breast .
My diagnosis and treatment is different from yours , but I will try and help answer some of your questions
Because of the lymph node involvement , I did have chemotherapy . I was initially very scared , but I found that it wasn’t quite as bad as I expected it would be . I managed to do most things that I had planned throughout 2024 .
In January I had a double mastectomy with reconstruction . This was my choice and something that I pushed extremely hard for…. Not the usual recommend surgery and I appreciate that this wouldn’t be the choice for many women
I did have a little radioactive seed injected before the operation . It was over very quickly and I hardly felt it . I am not aware that they gave me a local anaesthetic.
I am recovering well from surgery and I am delighted with the results of the reconstruction .
The pathology following surgery confirmed that the tumour was as tiny as it was seen on the scans . and that there was only the 1 lymph node involved. It was decided that I didn’t need any radiotherapy . It was also confirmed to be grade 2 tumour , so not as aggressive as most triple negative breast cancers .
My response to chemo was good … with 2/3 of the tumour killed . The fact that it was not completely killed means that I will now take an oral chemo for 6 months ( capeicitabine )
Regarding a post surgery bra . …. Marks and Spencer’s do an excellent post surgery range with front fastening and super soft fabric . I was advised to sleep in a bra for a few weeks , but obviously my surgery was very different to yours
Ask your medical team if you are likely to have a drain fitted . They will do this to drain away any fluid following surgery . It’s probably unlikely if your surgery is a lumpectomy, but better to be prepared . I found the drains were cumbersome and limited movement etc . But they were removed after a week . If you are likely to need one , then you can purchase a handy waist belt that holds your drain bottle . I got mine from Amazon .
I want to send a huge hug and good luck vibes for your operation on the 14th xxx
I have read everything I can find on this rare type of breast cancer . In summary I think I have learned that this apocrine subtype is less aggressive than others , it is unlikely to be completely killed by chemo, but if lymph nodes are involved , then chemo is recommended.