have had so much support from special ladies on this site but just want to SHOUT AND SCREAM cos am so fed up with this C**P.
Have suspicious cells which won’t be looked at till March and really scared. Breast feels so alien to me.
Angry doesn’t come close to how I feel
K x
Oh Karen I totally agree it is really really unfair and you should scream and shout and if you haven’t then you should make up for it now. What suspicious cells do you mean, think I have missed something. You will get through this but it doesn’t make it any easier. Am thinking of you.
Vickie
Hi K -
I want to send you the biggest cuddle ever ever. I’ve read a few of your posts recently and your pain is jumping off the page. I’m so sorry you’re in such a bad place. thinking of you.
Lynn
x.
Vickie
have DCIS in breast that I had cancer in but they don’t seem to be that bothered about it and I am so scared.
Have my heart scan results Sat and so worried about those as well
K x
Karen I just wanted to add my hugs and warmest wishes to those others have sent to you. You have been through so much in the last year. Can you get another appointment to discuss the dcis in more detail? Really feel for you. xxxxxx
Hi Karen,
Not good news for you but I can only echo what Pam has said.
You really need to speak to your BCN or whoever was present at this particular meeting so that so many issues can be clarified for you.
When you have a better understanding as to what this diagnosis means I’m sure it will give you some peace of mind and then you can take the next step whenever you’re ready and able…
I’m really hoping that their attitude of ‘not being bothered’ can be explained properly to you. Maybe they are going to watch you closely for a while before any new decisions are made rather than they’re not interested.
Take care my lovely. I’m sure you’re totally exhausted with all this worry as well as recent family events too…
Please try and rest or swear/shout or get angry or whatever you think will alleviate this pent up exhaustion and fear…
Lovely to see your oldest at his graduation.
Oh Karen am
thinking of you. It is so scary and so unfair. I agree you need more info and poss a second opinion. All mt love to you
v
No wonder you want to shout and scream, you need some answers. How can they not be bothered with DCIS, you can’t wait till March.
Your heart is in the right place, we all know that.
Morning hugs for you to wake up too
Maria
Hi Kay
In addition to the support you have here please do call our helpline where you can talk things through with one of our team, the line is open weekdays 9-5 and Sat 9-2.
Take care
Lucy
Ohh Karen I am so sorry you’re having to go through this right now (not that there is a ‘right’ time).
You’ve every right to scream! Think we all need to join up and scream at them together - that would get them moving! I can’t believe you have to wait until March, it’s absurd! and unfair!
Sounds like yet another one here, where he who shouts loudest gets a result - if it works then so be it, do it.
What does your bcn say? What reasons have they given you for the delay? What about the time limit between diagnosis and treatment, does that come into play?
We’re with you girl,
Thinking of you ((((big hugs)))) - just wish they were real ones,
Love Denise x
Ps Lovely photo too x
still so angry and scared
Bl**dy h*ll Karen, I’m not surprised you are angry and scared – I think we all would be in your situation. How can they think you can sit back and cope with nothing being done really beggars belief, especially after all you have already gone through. Please ring the help-line here and shout and scream at your bcn.
Thinking of you and sending you hugs. Please keep posting, even if it is only to let off steam – we understand.
Jill
Karen hun feel so sorry that you are having to go through this.It cannot be right that you are expected to wait until March for some answers that is inhuman. You have endured so much this year.Shout, scream, stamp your feet.Keep on at your BCN for an appt. No wonder you are scared and frightened. Sending you loads of hugs. Love Jackie x
Surgeon said that there is only a small amount and that rads can still be working so doesn’t want to do anything yet about it. She has said that if any other changes happen she will see me earlier than March.
Also that she wants my heart results and diagnosis sorted first.
Sorry for being such a whinger !!
Thanks for all your kind words and support
K x
Hi Karen
Not surprised that you are scared and angry!
No way are you a whinger. People who moan and groan about petty coughs and colds are whingers, not you.
Sending you some virtual hugs and support…
xxxxxxxx
Hi,
had my heart scan results today and I have coronary heart disease so more medication. Not what I wanted to hear but at least I know.
Karen x
Hi Karen, I could cry for you honey… God life really knows how to kick you in the teeth when your down!!!
I’m here if you want to talk, PM me…
Thinking of you, sending you a big cyber hug… xxxx