Hi
Yes I suppose you are right in that I should focus on the people who do care. The ones who dont and have been “scared off” may be going through the same treatment one day and then the shoe will be on the other foot, then they will know what it is like (not that I wish anything on them). It seems the only people who really understand are the friends we have made who are also going through the same treatment, which is understandable. Please, please anyone out there who has relatives, friends etc. with cancer, do not be afraid, they need you to be there, as it can be a very lonely place. xx