Hi amanda
We have our own business and i work - I am in the closet re: bc
When i started this i was all for working. Apart from anything else I needed it to keep my brain going as i couldn’t see myself vegging all day.
If you are going to work it’s very important that you can have a flexible arrangement as you simply will have to do what your body says.
E.g. for me
FEC/ Epi
week 1 awful
week 2 very good
week 3 not bad
TAX
week 1 good except last day
week 2 awful
week 3 quite good
other people are completely the reverse on the same drugs
some people have a lot of pain on TAX which i don’t get at all
until you start you won’t have a clue how you’ll be. Some people can function completely normally on FEC - I couldn;t have got to work in week 1 as any movement made me feel very sick
you will have some good times and others that are less good and you need to learn how you’ll personally react and until you’ve had it you won’t know …
your brain will go fuzzy from time to time …it’s like premature senility … but it comes back …
I do have to say though … there are major problems with working for me …
* when you are knackered and tryng to work there is no time or no energy left for anything else. I mean housework, going out, anything at all. This is boring and gets you down
* if you have deadlines to meet in your bad week it’s a nightmare as you just don’t/can’t function so it’s mega stressful - doing my quarterly accounts was horrendous
the good thing about it for me is …
* keeping going is good as it’s business as usual and I think it will be easier at the end of this to get back on with normal life
* working motivates me to get up (often with the alarm), put my makeup on, look presentable and just get on with it
I am also lucky that as I am based at home I don’t get exposed to office colds - or have to get on sardine packed trains - these are all considerations too
I also think you need to consider your position and your prospects and how management will react …in some ways it could be better to keep going - on the other if you are going to seriously underperform you might be better off staying away completely… it really depends on the culture of your company and whether you can do a smaller role than usual quite easily
lots of things to consider … it depends on your circumstances really …
good luck
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