Ivyted ❤️❤️ Please use the forum, the someone like me option would be good as there have been other ladies who have been pregnant when bc has been discovered and possibly could help. As soon as you know your treatment plan let us know, the threads are full of tips and 👭👭you never feel alone and everyone understands 😘😘💕💕✨✨Shi xx
Sorry to hear you’re joining us, but thank goodness it can now be dealt with & the sooner the better.
You’re right, it can be an emotional rollercoaster, some days you’ll feel invincible & others you will want to hide under the duvet. It can help to deal with the whole thing by taking it an appointment at a time & to try not to get into the ‘what ifs.’
Do have a look at the rest of the forum & there is the helpline here of you want to talk things through.
Thank you! 💗
I was diagnosed with breast cancer on Thursday. However it has been caught nice and early and I am hopeful and positive (at the minute) I am sure I will have my moments.
I don't know what my treatment will look like just yet as they want to do some ‘homework’ around treatment during pregnancy. However I will find out on Thursday, that’s the next step I suppose.
It just doesn't feel real at the moment xx
Thank you ☺️ One more day! That’s it, just one more day 🤞🏼I’ll let you all know how I get on xxx
Ivy-ted ❤️ 👭glad your midwife is 👭you. Hold tight till you find out one way or another 👭your head will be 🤯at the moment but keep calm there is support from everywhere 👭you could use the ask the nurse facility on here or the someone like me facility 😘 please keep us posted and we are all here as and when and if you need us ❤️💕💕✨✨Shi xx
Thanks for replying both
It’s good my appointment was made on the day. I just feel so sick not knowing. I think I’ve been ok up until this point, today I just can’t stand the anxiety it’s causing.
I feel like I’m ready for bad news (even more ready for good news) I know there’s nothing I can do about the wait. I suppose it just helps to vent.
Saw my midwife today and she’s been great with putting my mind at ease.
I am sending a huge hug. Being pregnant is such a life changing event I just can't imagine having this uncertainty on top of that.
It is compounded by the reassurance you got a few weeks back. Good advice already given. Time does drag when you're waiting for results. The team will have considered all angles and you will get lots of support at your appointment. It is good to take someone with you too. Two pairs of ears help a lot. Will be thinking of you.
First a big hug. You must be going through all kinds of hell and I can’t imagine what it must be like to be pregnant at the same time. I can’t answer your questions - our personal experiences here are all very different, as well as very similar. I just didn't want you to feel ignored with your first post.
The wait is awful. You’ve managed the last few days, you’ll manage these next three days. Whatever you do, avoid googling anything but do make sure you take someone with you for emotional support on Thursday, just in case. Meantime, do relaxation exercises, meditations, anything to keep your mind from catastrophising at this early stage. I hope everything turns out well for you and your baby x
I found a lump in my breast 6 weeks ago. Attended the docs and they sent me away as I was under 30 and currently pregnant. I went back with concerns last week, was told the same thing again but this time they referred me to put my mind at ease.
I attended my appointment yesterday, and the consultant said “yes it feels very innocent” but sent me for an ultrasound to be on the safe side. I had 3 biopsies taken from the same lump. I was then told I would need to come back next week but I had to speak to the consultant again. He then told me that the lump was very suspicious and I should prepare to start thinking about the pregnancy and how I am going to move forward with it. Obviously this almost knocked me off my chair as I had gone through the whole process being told, it’s nothing to worry about.
Should I be worrying based on what was said. I don’t know anyone else who has been through this. I go back on Thursday but the wait is just too much to handle. I really just want to try and get my head around what might be going on.
Has anyone had a similar experience? What happened?