You could certainly try showing your obtuse husband - is he nice but dim? Can he read? They do have breasts themselves and can get breast cancer. My husband told me he would be on my journey every step of the way and I said I wouldn’t be with him
Thanks for posting that. I’m lucky that that is exactly the care I do get. I had a mental ticklist.
I don;t suppose NICE has guidelines for obtuse husbands? Xx
Clinical guideline [CG138] Published: 24 February 2012 Last updated: 17 June 2021
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