I thinnk you should not worry and keep chasing the clinic or find another one if they keep ignoring your request. Stressing won't help and you will just hurt yourself. I know It's easy said than done but don't stress. I wish you all the best and all the luck in the world.
H Nikki, Sadly this does happen although it really shouldn't! I know how much it messes with your head and it's impossible to focus and not take it out on those closest to you so don't beat yourself up about that.
Honestly whatever happens on Wednesday it will feel better than the limbo you have been in, if and it's a big if they can't give you the all clear and you do need a biopsy then it will be more waiting but they will be as honest as they can will you and you will come away with an idea as to what's going on.
Just wait and see what happens on Wednesday, you cannot second guess and can only deal with the facts as you get them, you can't makes plans about what to do as you don't know anything, it's all this speculation that does you in!
Hang in there my love Xx Jo
I'm sorry you have this worry and sorry that your Dr doesn't seem to have much in the way of bedside manner! He's referred you though which is the important thing, do keep chasing the clinic until you know they have recieved it, it will help your state of mind to do something productive.
There is no getting away from the stress this causes but staying away from Google and keeping busy is the best thing to do, There are no answers at this stage and that is the most anxiety provoking part.
The chances of this being breast cancer are slim, most lumps are nothing to worry about but it's impossible not to think of the worst case scenario, I'm not going to tell you not to worry because I know how hard this is, I can tell you from experience though that no amount of worrying is going to change anything.
Try and focus on your boys and deal with things if and when you need to. I'm 3.5 years on from diagnosis and I'm doing great, life goes on after breast cancer and if you have to deal with it you will do.
Always someone here to chat to, nothing much we haven't been through between us so we can help with most things Xx Jo