I'm really sorry you're having to cope with this- it is just so scary and stressful. I'm about the same age as you and I have my appointment at the one-stop breast clinic on Wednesday afternoon for redness and peau d'orange.
Please do keep in mind though that 9 out of 10 people who are referred under the two-week referral pathway do not have cancer. Also of the 1 out of 10 that do have cancer, a proportion have early cancer, which is treatable and go on to live full lives.
I hope you get the referral from your GP today! xx